sparkle456

Most schools report to the clearing house. Check out this site: http://www.nslc.org/ And, I'll bet your school site has info about this as well.

I have no idea what everyone's specific story is, so I don't want to generalize. This has to feel awful...but DO NOT feel defeated. You're obviously bright and put forth a lot of effort in the application process. It's draining! It's all about fit. Not to be mean, but you seriously have to evaluate programs based on what fits your research interests, what your UG rsch is based off of, etc. And if not straight up PhD's, apply to MA's and work from there. And of course apply to some "reach" schools and realize there are no "safe" schools. You will see the results once you find places that are for you. for real!

I received 3 acceptances in SMALL envelopes for MA so...yes, they do come in small letter envelopes! I received an acceptance in a LARGE envelope for PHD. FYI.

I'm really glad to see this post. I don't see any reason to give up hope/feel that academia is not for you. Do you want to go into a straight up PhD program? or, are you applying to MAs? Is funding important? I KNOW there are MA's in counseling/psychology or marriage and family therapy that will accept many qualified applicants. If you are rejected this time from possibly highly ranked schools, would an MA from a slightly lower ranked graduate and professional school help?? What is your plan/why are you getting the degree?? I'm curious and wanting to help!!

manilowese, i suggest the possibility of deferring for 1 year. I too was accepted to Brandeis and it also my dream school! however, the lack of a stipend will make it impossible to go. I don't know your exact situation, but would deferring help you? also, i'd suggest asking for an extension from the school w/the april 3rd deadline...i too had to ask for an extension and it was granted. so...i hope it works out for you!!

Congrats on your acceptance! I'm so sad now...I haven't received my formal rejection. I hope you enjoy it, it sounds great

viewtopic.php?f=7&t=14618 It's under Applications--lots and lots of responses, look there.

Congrats and THANKS for the info!! Good luck, I hope you end up where you want to go

ahh! getting closer to decision time.

Hi! I'm just curious what questions were asked, etc. Are you excited about UConn?! Thanks!

I was accepted to Brandeis Sociology PhD and I'm fairly sure everyone was notified...not sure if they use a waitlist. I got my letter yesterday, so good luck!

That was too funny. Hmm...I had a similar situation via email. It was so cryptic "we hope to know more soon" and the very next day someone was accepted. C'mon she had to know! Good luck though.

OMG that was totally me before I heard something. Good-somethings. So if it helps, I can offer my empathy/sympathy! Where are you applying?

I sent you a pm.

I think if you haven't already, look at the program's website to see what they say about this. Some programs say if you've been out of school for 5+ years (or something similar) that work related references are acceptable. I'm sure they understand that not all students go to graduate school straight out of undergraduate coursework. With that said, I would definitely ask someone who is familiar with your work ethic, ability to complete tasks, etc. (like a supervisor as you mentioned). You could always set up a meeting to discuss your plans, how this degree would help your career, etc. It's a slippery slope b/c what if they are not ok with you leaving? Or, would you be planning on staying w/the company during/after?? But, if someone who is supervising you can speak to your qualities, I think that would help a lot. I agree with contacting a previous professor and showing them your CV, work sample, etc. I would even contact the program you are applying to and ask them what they are looking for in terms of references. It will show that you are truly interested and that you understand the competition and want to stand out! Good luck and this is just my opinion, of course.