You have mentioned that it would (naturally) upset you if this girl got accepted to a school that you didn't... however, neither you nor others who have posted have drilled home the point that, if she gets accepted, she is ABSOLUTELY taking SOMEONE's spot. With graduate programs as competitive as they are, there are not enough spots to go around. It would be absolutely despicable if this girl took ANY spot because that would mean one less spot for an honest, deserving and capable student In fact, there is a good chance she could be taking a spot that could otherwise go to one of us here on the fora. And she would likely be accepting a University fellowship or TA-ship as well... again, money that could otherwise go to a deserving student. If I were in your situation, I would certainly make sure that this information is available to any school that accepted her because it is simply WRONG for her to claim a spot that should go to a truly deserving student.