I'm in a situation where coming out of undergrad, I had decided to take some time off before ultimately applying to grad school and she got the better job offer (read: I got zero). We ended up moving in together in DC. We've basically agreed that she won't quit her job to move with me if I end up at NYU, Virginia or Indiana, especially since like folks said, Charlottesvile and Bloomington aren't exactly overflowing with jobs. Thankfully my #1 school is Maryland and if I get in we'll stay in DC but if I go somewhere else we'll have to do long distance again We survived it when we studied abroad in Chile and Belgium respectively, but I'm not really looking forward to that again.