I'm glad I finally mustered the courage to read this thread (for weeks I've been avoiding it, trying not to believe that I was likely going to be rejected from schools where I was sure I would get in). I'm glad I've read it now, because it's made me feel a lot better! I am 3 years out of UG and have had a rocky road employment-wise in that time. As an undergrad I knew I wanted to eventually be a sociologist, but I felt unready to enter a PhD program because I wasn't sure of my interests and felt it would be foolish to take the plunge immediately. I opted to work for a few years to gain some clarity (big mistake - this was 2009 - I really don't know what I was thinking when I decided, "oh, I'll just get a JOB!")
Anyway, about a year ago, after being laid off, I realized that I was ready and it was time to focus on my applications. And because of high grades and GRE scores, experience as an RA and TA and excited support from former professors (and my UG institution is a top-20 soc program) I felt very confident. One of my LOR-writers, who is very distinguished, actually said to me, "I think you'll get in almost everywhere you're applying."
Fast forward to now, after I applied to 9 carefully-selected schools (4 top-10, 3 ranked 10-20, 1 ranked in 30s and 1 "safety" ranked in the 50s), I have been accepted only to the "safety," which I applied to on a whim. I still have not heard from 5 schools, but I know all of them have accepted people and so I'm just waiting for the rejections (and hoping for a waitlist). Needless to say that last few weeks have been an emotional rollercoaster, as I know many of you can understand!
I'm curious what everyone's take is on admissions this year vs. potential future admissions cycles. Granted, this was my first try, but the pure numbers of people applying this year seem astronomical. Do you think this will continue, and graduate school will just get harder and harder to get into? (This is related to my inner question of: should I just take this acceptance and run with it, or try again next year because my supporters -- and I -- think I could do better?)
This post turned out to be much longer than I expected...sorry about that! I'm not a big poster on this forum (or on the internet in general) but I felt such relief after reading through this thread that I felt inclined to respond!