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Officially freaking out...


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I'm not coping, I'm simply freaking out and agonizing over this situation. Slept 3 hours last night, and as you can see, I'm back up tonight at 2:30am.

I haven't made a decision on two schools that are equal in so many ways, but that have strong advantages/disadvantages that balance each other out. I think at this point, I am willing to flip a coin and call it a day. So tired of the stress. Good luck everyone else in our position.

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I think at this point, I am willing to flip a coin and call it a day.

As I stay up freakishly late and wait to hear from a waitlist, I will be your proverbial coin, except with more than two options and no flipping required! I say... John Hopkins if you are fully funded there, and if not, University of MD.

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Freaking out is an understatement. I think complete melt-down may be more appropriate. I decided, but I think I may have done so rashly, and now I think I may have made the worse mistake of my life. I picked a school where the advisor seemed not so enthused to have me because I was just so into her area of specialization and I am turning down a school that seemed to be jumping up and down to have me. Both seem hopefully about equal in rank (???) However the school I chose did give me a 4 yr university-wide fellowship, while the school that seemed less eager to have me gave me funding only at the very last second, presumably after another student turned them down. I just wanted to pick all of my schools... oh god..

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As I stay up freakishly late and wait to hear from a waitlist, I will be your proverbial coin, except with more than two options and no flipping required! I say... John Hopkins if you are fully funded there, and if not, University of MD.

Just to let you know, I did choose Johns Hopkins, and I can't help but wonder how much my magical forum coin had to do with it while I was stressing out at two in the morning. Thanks. :-)

(But don't get me wrong, I did rationalize it, and emotionalize it, as well).

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this made me smile.... seems like we all stress no matter what... having too many choices is as bad as having not enough.

Hope the buyer's remorse thing passes quickly :)

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