I'm really sorry. I know it can be terribly hard, but you have to start focusing your energies on things that are in your control. Figuring how you are going to address the admissions directors advice is something you could be looking into. If you have other applications waiting, it's best to try to push them away for now. Easier said than done--I am having a really hard time trying not to think about the admissions too. But I know it's necessary. I have already applied and it's beyond my control.
I was talking to a friend a short while ago. Most of it consisted of (jealous?) rants about undeserving folks who make it into top masters programs in the US from over here. These guys have done nothing (no publications/major projects) other than score well in school tests. And I'm talking about ONLY school tests, not even the GRE, TOEFL or whatever (even these have little value in assessing research potential). They just demonstrated they could succeed in classroom exercises and not require financial support.
Even though what I said in the last paragraph seems unrelated, it made me realize it is best to remain as impassive as possible. I can't allow the admissions decisions, decisions that have not yet arrived, results other folks are getting, or the general (sickening) outlook of people here that pursuing research is pointless influence me so much. If all the universities reject me, what can I do? I'll have try again next year, and I will have a stronger profile then. I'm just going to do my best to forget, and stop worrying.
I really hope you do get into a program. I guess best thing is to try to stay neutral and not hope for too much or too little.