I've been waitlisted by my top choice, and offered acceptance at another good school (but not my top choice). If I write to my waitlist school to check on the status of the process, will it be helpful or hurtful to my chances to let them know I have another offer on the table?
Earlier, my contact at my waitlist school asked if I had any other offers, and I felt funny about the question, but at the time I could honestly say "not yet, because responses are just beginning to come in." Now I'm not sure what the wise move is...