Hi everyone.
I recently got accepted into Washington State University, which is a VERY small town: Pullman, WA. I got into their Materials Science PhD program with full tuition waiver and a $2100 monthly stipend on top of that. I want to get a PhD because I'm passionate about research and liked the program when I visited their recruitment session.
I also got word that I've been accepted into the Applied Masters Program in Materials Science at the University of Washington, which has no funding and I'd be paying out of state tuition.
The catch is that my boyfriend, who's in web development/software engineering, would have difficulty finding a job in Pullman. Obviously Seattle would be much better for his sake. My logical mind says that going to Pullman is a no brainer, since the program is a good fit and I'd be getting a PhD. However, I could apply to UW PhD program after completing their Masters program, and UW was my first choice. It's also worth noting that I had a pretty unstable / abusive childhood and my current boyfriend is very emotionally supportive.
Thoughts?