hey folks!
I wanted to start this thread because I couldn't find one like it yet (please redirect me if it exists!). I'll ask my Q but invite others to ask theirs about negotiating funding here too! We never talk about money, it's all so hush hush around the seminar room, so let's help each other anonymously?
Question: How have y'all negotiated upgraded funding offers when the first just doesn't make the cut?
My predicament: The school I'm leaning towards if I don't get a scholarship for my top choice (admitted) has offered me base funding plus a very modest admission "bonus", which is considerably less than I got for my master's, and it also just isn't enough to live on (completely financially independent here, no co-signers either). For argument's sake, and without divulging too much about myself, I can confirm that I have a proven record of winning prestigious scholarships, I have been active in university life, GPA is excellent, my CV includes conferences, papers, and academic event organizing, and I am an excellent fit with the university with a supervisor eager to work with me. The only bargaining chip I do not have is the one that keeps sounding like the only one that matters: a competing funding offer. Ridiculously, perhaps, I want that bonus to be multiplied by 3-10, and that lower end is still annoying me. I'm asking my current GPD and PhD peers for advice too, but need all I can get. I am ready to decline this current offer, even if it means no doctorate - that's how much it doesn't work for me. Honestly I saw the offer and had the first moment in this whole process where I was like "well [curse], maybe I'm financially locked out of a PhD after all."
Any constructive words are welcome!