Looking for any insight in what people think is important for success both academically and personally.
Both places are great in terms of research fit and are funded. The major differences are listed below.
Boulder:
Amazing location/fun to live
POI seems excited for me to join lab
Princeton:
Slightly better fit academically and culturally (I am strongly considering staying in academia and the department seems very tight nit.)
Closer to home plus more money.
I'm moving with my fiancée and family is important to us. The extra money and proximity for Princeton would make it easier to travel home. However, her job is one that greatly benefits from having local activities and her day to day would be much more exciting in Boulder.
My primary question to y'all is if you had a similar situation what school you would lean and why? I'm just looking for outside perspectives so any insight could be helpful.