Thanks guys! I am leaning towards Berkeley for many of the reasons you both touch on, but my myriad pro/con lists are still largely unedited right now. The various precarities - financial, creative, etc. - of both programs make the decision an especially hairy one -- "which form of financial insecurity is best for me?!" Lol. I hope to find the time to work on my writing if I decide to go down the PhD route, and it's interesting to talk to people (at Berkeley and elsewhere) who went for their PhD after the MFA. It's a fickle thing thinking about desire on all these levels, especially between two pretty incomparable opportunities, both of which mean leaving New York City, where I've lived this whole time. Lots to think about & hopefully my visit to Berkeley for the admitted students weekend will shed some light. It's funny, too, how aggressively these places try to recruit their admitted students, assuming that I've also gotten into Duke, Yale, etc. It's like, "um no, I'm literally choosing between living in the place of a likely apocalyptic earthquake or a remote cornfield for the next X years. It's like that."
Anyway! I appreciate your thoughtful responses & apologize if I've hijacked the thread with my peculiar situation. Also, congrats to @punctilious on your partner's acceptance and decision! I really wanted to apply to Harvard but couldn't get that second essay shaped up in time. Will he work with Steph Burt? The faculty there (duh) is pretty great, and it does seem like the department skews toward creative writing in some interesting ways. Congrats to everyone for dealing with this toilsome process!