Hi guys, I need some help/advice on deciding between two schools (and it's terrifyingly close to the 15th!) I'm coming straight from undergrad and I've been admitted to two great PhD programs! There are two main factors that I'm deliberating between: academic fit and social fit. Backstory on the social consideration: I'm very shy and have social anxiety, but it's extremely important for me to feel connected with people...it's just very hard to achieve for me. I know I won't be as successful in a program if it isn't also a good social fit; that's why it's as important to me as the academic fit.
School A has a couple profs with research interests in the same ballpark as mine, but not exactly the same focus and emphasis. However, I LOVED the people there and made some close friends that I'm still in contact with. I felt like I easily made progress in overcoming the social anxiety and became connected and attached to the people.
School B has a prof there whose interests match up exactly with mine! She's really big in my AOI and it'd be so exciting to study with her. However, while the people were very nice, I didn't feel quite as connected there. While I think I'd end up okay socially, it just wasn't as good (or instant) of a fit as School A.
So, what are yall's opinions/experiences on the importance of academic and/or social fit? I welcome any and all suggestions because I'm torn. Thanks so much for reading!!!