Hi,
I read your post. I am going to YDS for the MDiv in the fall. If you have any questions, I would be happy to answer them. Although it seems that you already have some excellent input. My only suggestion would be to consider denominational differences. It will influence funding. As you probably are already aware Duke and Emory are Methodist. Yale is Episcopalian. Harvard is Unitarian. I was accepted and funded at Duke, Emory and Yale. However, the Methodist institutions offered me less than the Episcopalian one. I think that being an Episcopalian helped me with funding at Yale. In both cases, Duke and Emory offer more funding options for Methodist students. It is more of a challenge finding money at an institution where you do not fit the denomination. It is not impossible. Just a challenge. The other thing worth noting is interviews. I think that they make a difference. But these are my own humble ramblings... good luck to you...