Hey, I hear you. I'm also trying to prepare for rejections. I haven't got any formal rejections or acceptances at this point but considering the timeframe and lack of interview requests I fear that all of them would be rejections. I don't know where you're from in Asia, but I'm currently based in Hong Kong. I also feel like I was a bit too ambitious, applying to Berkeley, Columbia, NYU, Brown, MIT. I only applied to 6 schools though (2 depts in NYU). Being an international too, I feel I can relate to you, though I'm not a fresh BA grad (I did an MPhil).
Uncertainty of academia is always something that makes me hesitate. I have many friends who are PhD students, grads, new assistant professors. Even a tenure-track assistant professor position is still very unstable since you need to be ready for reviews every few years. Let's say I do get into a US PhD programme, in Anthropology I'd be looking at 7-8 years.. and then probably need to do a post-doc which is another painful process of applying, waiting, getting accepted/rejected... after 1-2 years of post-doc you finally look for a tenure-track or whatever teaching position which at best gives you a contract of 5 years or something (I'm not sure about the US but it's like that in HK). All this time, your friends will be progressing through their careers, having a stable job, etc. (let's hope, though our generation doesn't have it so easy). People have told me exactly this a few years back, and I couldn't sympathise, but now, turning 26 next week, I feel this...
So my plan is to apply for Australian schools in the summer (Aus PhDs are also a lot shorter 3.5-4yrs) and if I don't get in, I'll get a job, and maybe try again next year (or not).
Australia seems to be a nicer place to live in as well. What's your reason for applying to US schools?