@SoftMango123 Thank you for your response! I will be sure to check out the article and stay positive. It can be a natural impulse to try and explain away a rejection, even just to say something in the face of disappointment. But it will suck regardless and I will fight that urge to hedge it! I know from last year that nothing I really say will make him feel better about rejection, and it is hard to feel helpless when someone you care about is hurting. I always feel like there is something I should be doing to be proactive and help, but like you said the only thing you really can do is be there and be supportive.
I have my fingers crossed for you! It is very exciting thinking about the possibilities for the future, and I hope that everything works out for you and your partner. It sounds like you have a wonderfully supportive and healthy relationship!