ashiepoo72 Posted March 21, 2015 Author Share Posted March 21, 2015 I woke up today with a strong sense that one of my programs is the right choice. I'm still going to a few more visits and talking to a few more POIs, but I'm pretty certain of what my choice will be. I wish all the rest of you luck in the programs you've chosen or with your impending choice! HistoryMystery and MollyTheMick 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heimat Historian Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 I thought I made a decision but certain complications have arisen. Additionally, as I'm moving with my partner, my choice needs to have something for her career path as well. That definitely increases the challenge. jayray11, HistoryMystery and Chiqui74 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 21, 2015 Author Share Posted March 21, 2015 Yeah that's rough. I'm really impressed by people who are able to coordinate a huge change like this when they have a partner to consider. I'm lucky it's just me and my daughter. She thinks it's a democracy, but I'm really the dictator of this relationship haha jayray11, catsandscarves, Gambaosaka1 and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayray11 Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 @Heimat (quote not working) - I'm totally with you on this one. I'll be declining one last offer today - mind's made up. Honestly my top two choices were essentially equal for me academically (a nice problem to have) and so I am picking based on where my partner can find a job and where we want to live at this stage in our lives. It seems like the pressure is ramped up when you're choosing for two. Although @Ashiepoo you are totally choosing for two also. It must be hard to think about schools/childcare/life with a kid in a new place. Good luck to you both! Heimat Historian 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TMP Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Yeah that's rough. I'm really impressed by people who are able to coordinate a huge change like this when they have a partner to consider. I'm lucky it's just me and my daughter. She thinks it's a democracy, but I'm really the dictator of this relationship haha Still! You have childcare/schools to consider! I don't know how old she is but it sounds like you'll want to be sure that her early schooling years start off right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 Yeah, researching schools and child care added an element of stress for sure, but I only applied where I felt comfortable bringing my kid, places with decent schools nearby. Maybe I'm a cynic, but I think kids are easier to deal with than grown ups haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 26, 2015 Author Share Posted March 26, 2015 I'm packing for a weekend in Minnesota, then I need to just F-ing choose already. I've been wondering why I quit smoking last year ellebe, HistoryMystery and Heimat Historian 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TMP Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 For your daughter?? ; HistoryMystery, remenis, Heimat Historian and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heimat Historian Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Because it's an awful habit? ashiepoo72 and HistoryMystery 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 27, 2015 Author Share Posted March 27, 2015 Ugh touche guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiqui74 Posted March 29, 2015 Share Posted March 29, 2015 (edited) Congrats, Gambaosaka! I hope they don't give you a hard time getting the visa. Chiqui, I think the added generous funding demonstrates they really want you at NYU and that you shouldn't read too much into the (apparent) aloofness of the POI. I never heard back :shrug: Edited March 29, 2015 by Chiqui74 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heimat Historian Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 I have decided to attend the University of Iowa for the Fall. I had a fantastic visit and I'm super excited. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tingdeh Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 I have decided to attend the University of Iowa for the Fall. I had a fantastic visit and I'm super excited. Congratulations, all the best!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heimat Historian Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 Thanks everyone! I definitely want to keep in touch with everyone (as time allows of course) and find out how all of your programs are working out. Also, I'm sure commiseration will be necessary from time to time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 I'm with you Heimat! We should do a google chat every now and then, catch up on how our classes and research are going. I spoke to my MA adviser, and she gave me great advice. After discussing the pros and cons and what I was thinking, I was glad to hear she agreed that UC Davis is the best choice for me. Had she disagreed it wouldn't change my mind, but I'm happy to have her confirm that my anxieties about Minnesota weren't overblown. I have nothing against Minn--it's an exciting and thriving department. I love that a bunch of strong female scholars run the history program, and I totally dig the interdisciplinary emphasis. But I couldn't get over certain instabilities that I feel would limit my ability to do my best work. So yeah, I'm going to Davis, and I couldn't be happier! wacyeah, jayray11, Gambaosaka1 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sigaba Posted March 31, 2015 Share Posted March 31, 2015 So yeah, I'm going to Davis, and I couldn't be happier! Especially in the winter, when you check the weather in Minnesota . tingdeh 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted March 31, 2015 Author Share Posted March 31, 2015 Haha honestly I do better in the cold than the heat...and Davis gets hot as balls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gambaosaka1 Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Congrats ashiepoo! UC Davis is a lucky school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wacyeah Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Congrats ashiepoo as well! My undergrad thesis advisor, who is a Colonial period historian, went to UC Davis for his Ph.D. and he told me he loved it so much so I really think that you'll enjoy it too! HistoryMystery 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wacyeah Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 As I indicated, I'm almost certain (with still a tiny bit of chance for making a change to Claremont) that I will attend U. Hawaii Manoa so, if there's anyone who actually decided to attend there, hit me up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiqui74 Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Ashiepoo, just out of curiosity, what instabilities put you off Minn? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 Financial stuff, mostly. I think a large part of their funding issue stems from the grad students not being unionized. The UCs have achieved some pretty significant gains because of the union. At the end of the day, Davis offered me more stability, which will make working and living less stressful. I'm not just a historian, I'm a mom, and my daughter is one of the main factors in my decision. I'm sure you and other parents can relate, Chiqui! And really anyone with a 2-body problem. HistoryMystery, Chiqui74, maelia8 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiqui74 Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I see. That makes sense. I think that most grad students are not unionized though, so those of us who have been accepted to schools who do have grad student unions are lucky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashiepoo72 Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 I agree, and I didn't decline just because they weren't unionized. I think a lot of the issues they have would be solved if grad students had a union, though. Less fuckery goes on when the administration is held accountable by a union. Ritwik and HistoryMystery 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr. t Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 unionized I keep parsing this word wrong. I was trying to figure out how grad students were un-ionized. merivo, ashiepoo72 and HistoryMystery 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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