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  1. "The POI I contacted 5 months ago said he had already received 40 emails from other potential students, for 1 spot. Clearly those other 40 people had better applications than I did, since they had already contacted him before me."

    Whew, 40 students for 1 spot... a couple labs I applied to were only accepting 4 people but the POI received over whopping 150 applications :(

     

    People who received their PhDs in sciences quite a few years ago don't understand how competitive admissions to PhD labs have become nowadays... 

  2. This female coworker of mine was telling another female undergrad that she should never get married and she should be the "man" of a relationship. This really annoyed the shit out of me especially when this female coworker pretty much relies on other male coworkers in the lab and outside the lab for 

     

    (1) design all of her experiments

    (2) teach her "how" to use stuff instead of finding out herself

    (3) previous exams of the classes she was taking/plan to take

    (4) troubleshooting her experiments

     

    I mean, really? She sure knows how to use people for her personal gain. She found out my PI was on the admission committee and decided to "volunteer" in our lab 3 months before she graduates from undergrad, and all of the sudden she got really into research work and decided to apply to the PhD program at our school.

     

    The worst part was that she told my PI, "if I don't get in PhD at this school then I'm gonna volunteer in your lab for another year and try again". 

     

    I mean, really? what a sketchy SOB, she shouldn't have put my PI in a such awkward situation. 

     

    Wow, what a pain in the rear end... has any male coworker refused to help her?  If it was me, I'd be like "I am not going to do it for you but I can try to help you". But yeah she does sound sketchy... 

     

    If I remember correctly, during my undergrad this one girl with terrible undergrad grades apparently got a research position in a prestigious faculty's lab because she managed to seduce a grad student there... 

  3. Hi, did you find this where they post "under committee review? Also, did you have any phone interviews prior? Thank, the waiting is about to kill me.

    The application portal sent me an email saying that a decision has been made for my application. I logged into my application, and at the very bottom was the link to the decision that was made for my application. When I clicked the link it was a generic and very short rejection letter. I did have one phone interview prior to applying.

  4. Congrats, FoggyAnhinga! I was wondering how much research and field experience you have. I suspect that your research interests broadly lie in ornithology, and you are doing really well with interviews and your acceptance! Field experience is something that I lack... I briefly worked on two bird banding projects plus I did my thesis research which was mostly field observations and some museum work. In the event that this application season is a bust, finding some bird projects to work on in the next year seems like the best way to strengthen my profile.

    Thanks shadowclaw! I'm actually not pursuing ornithology (birding is just my hobby and I find anhingas awesome lol). I've been gathering lab & field research experience since my first year in undergrad. Since then, I've been doing some research every summer and throughout every year of my undergraduate program (quite a few research experience were gathered from my work study program), through my master's, and also during my last several years of work experience as a research assistant up to this point. I have field experiences along both east and the west coasts, the gulf coast, and also from east Asia. 

     

    It's still very early in the stages of any decision or interviews, so I definitely wouldn't give up any hope yet! Since you have a master's degree, that could be a HUGE plus over other applicants too (many professors in ecology field are seeking PhD students with master's degree). Furthermore, since you applied for NSFGRFP (which is basically your admission ticket to a Ph.D. program if you are awarded), that gives you another huge advantage. Stay positive, and I'll keep my fingers crossed!

     

    I'm the one that heard back from UNC's EEOB program. My POI emailed me yesterday to let me know I was accepted into the program (without an interview?) and nominated for a fellowship! I'm not quite sure how that works to be honest but I'm very excited since it's my first acceptance. Although I can't attend, I was invited to their recruitment weekend which begins on Feb 27th. Your POIs might just be taking longer to get back to you with results. Best of luck to everyone!

    A huge congrats to you sfrie! Looks like an awesome program and if you decide to attend there, hope it's a great fit for you!

  5. I agree with all of the sound advice offered by the members here. If you want to pursue a career in academia (and if that is what you truly want to do and if you still see yourself doing that in the future), my advice is NEVER EVER GIVE UP. I knew a few people whose applications kept being turned down due to their low GPA. Guess what they did? Some enrolled in a new undergraduate program to aim for the highest grades possible in sciences or any core course requirements, and they succeeded and now are pursuing Ph.D. (they are currently in their late 20s to early 30s). One person I know actually finished his new undergrad degree in three years. Another person was working part-time in a lab while taking quite a few courses at a local university/community college as a non-degree student, and that person also succeeded in being admitted to a Ph.D. program. 

     

    I apologize if i seem abrasive, I just don't like repeating myself and I don't like being treated as if I don't know what sacrifices mean and have never made them before. Also, I can be a very stubborn person which might be very frustrating for some people. I appreciate your patience, just not your admonishment. I have no illusion that it might take 15-30 years before I hold any kind of academic post at this rate.

    I too have a rather stubborn attitude. I don't blame you; every graduate student, whether current or prospect, have their respective pride (I used to be immature and a little defensive when my advisor suggested some unexpected changes for my research project early on - looking back, I hugely regret my attitude). I used to be very stubborn when I started my master's, but as my research project progressed, I realized that I still had LOT to learn, and by embracing changes & sacrifices (and becoming more open-minded and less stubborn), I was capable of impressing a number of my colleagues, my major advisor, and my committee within 15 months after I started graduate school.

     

    However, let me remind you this: a persistent stubborn attitude will get you only so far (yes it is true, I cannot emphasize it enough). In fact, even if you get admitted to a program, if you continue to be very stubborn, you will have a very difficult time building bridges with other faculty, other graduate students, and maybe even your advisor. A persistent stubborn attitude can be perceived very negatively by the people around you. Many people who have responded and given you advice on this thread have substantially more experience than you when it comes to graduate application process / admission procedures, and hence are trying to help you, not discourage you. Nobody here is trying to treat you as though you don't know what sacrifices mean. 

     

    Don't get defensive or abrasive, and cut down on your stubbornness, because with those traits you will have a difficult time building a network even when you are in a graduate program. 

  6. In my experience, at almost every collaborative/work lunch meeting like you describe, the professor (or department, if they are a visitor from a department seminar program) pays!

    Sometimes, but certainly not all, based on my experience. It depends on faculty - some professors are more stingy about this than others.

  7. I remember spending one month in the previous year without eating out at all, which was VERY hard to do, I'm not going to lie (not even a single visits to any bars or Starbucks, etc), and it's staggering to see how much you can save per month on food! However, as most of you know, eating out is inevitable these days even when you don't want to go, because as a grad student your major advisor or your postdoc may invite you for lunch, which you can't really refuse (especially when your advisor is trying to introduce you to another professor to discuss collaborative work, etc), or if you are meeting a friend from outside the town (sure, you can ask him/her to meet with you in a parking lot just to chat if you feel super stingy, but I don't know if anyone does that lol). 

  8. Group project is going pretty much exactly as I expected. Blerg.

    Ah group projects... they can be especially frustrating when the workload somehow gets unevenly divided and a member or two of the group slacks off (most annoying part is when I ask them "did you get this done?" Their response is "uh, no. should I?"). 

     

    Best of luck to you though! It'll be over before you know it.

  9. I did respond very briefly! I told her that it was between her and the professor at that point and I was not getting involved further. I didn't want to risk going back and forth with the student and having her start problems with me over what she did. I also told her to not contact me over Facebook given that she had my email for anything class related. Very strange experience haha. 

    Hahaha I hope she didn't respond to you after that... oh boy, the things undergrads do these days for a better grade... 

     

    Another stupid thing I overheard was during a seminar by a guest speaker (the presentation was about ocean currents in northern Pacific), one undergrad student in the audience (who clearly wasn't paying attention, I'm guessing he was attending to fulfill his class requirement on attending these seminars) suddenly interrupted the speaker and asked in his loud obnoxious voice "Is that a mountain range in France or something??"

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