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  1. 1 hour ago, tomorrowforgotten said:

    I've been accepted to some programs and don't have any interview invites pending or anything, BUT I can't stop refreshing my email. This process has totally wrecked me mentally; I refresh my email every five minutes. Idk what I'm expecting to come! 

    Anyway, I just thought I'd share and use this as an opportunity to tell everyone to go out and have fun! I know everyone isn't done yet and some are still waiting, but self care is so important! I encourage everyone to go catch a movie, hang with friends, SOMETHING. Just stop refreshing!! Good things will come! 

    Very good advice but you know it's tough to let go and have faith. Particularly for those who are applying after some earlier attempts. It's a very crazy situation but I guess there is nothing to do but somehow hang in there. I think within a couple of weeks everything will fall into place for everyone so even if this time is tough, it's temporary. I really wish the process was less brutal but it's a simple case of demand and supply in this steam of study, isn't it? Good luck to everyone and remember, this too shall pass! 

  2. 8 hours ago, psychlife4me said:

    Anyone been accepted off a phone interview? I recently did and after not liking some of the other places I've interviewed at, I'm really thinking I will accept it. My only worry is, I haven't seen the facility/met the grad students yet. Is it weird to ask if I can come visit the campus so I can get a good feel for where I'll be the next 4-6 years or is that weird?

    Any advice would be great!

    Personally I think you MUST visit the campus before accepting. This is where you will live for the next 5-6 years. You HAVE to love the place, the lab, the people - everything. If it is possible to make the trip, please do so. Just hanging around the lab (legitimately of course and not lurking :)) will give a really good sense of how things function there. There is nothing worse than being stuck with a group or a place you don't really relate to. And if after visiting you still think it's the best place for you, then of course start looking for an apartment that you love as much as your program :)

  3. 3 hours ago, nervous_nellie said:

    What do people think about declining interviews after finding a program that you love? I'm waiting on an official offer letter with funding, but I loved the school and don't feel like going on another interview is a good decision. Does that look bad on applicants? 

    If you like a program and find out from the data of previous years that is available that you can live with the stipend they offer, then I think you can pretty much say good bye to all other interviews lined up. Too much time, money and stress goes into the travelling and preparation for the interviews and if you prize them less than what you already have, it doesn't make much sense enduring the ordeal. But be sure that there is an actual offer on the table before you decline the other interviews (as I'm sure you have already). Good luck and many congratulations! :)

  4. 1 hour ago, HopefullyDr said:

    Thank you so much for the kind words! I did not consider the possibility that the schools received more applications than prior years so that explains the level of intense competition. It blows my mind how competitive this field is and I am proud that I have made it this far. I think this process has made me doubt myself and I really hope that I get some confidence back come fall. Thanks again!

    I was reading somewhere that getting admission into a Clinical Psychology PhD program is more difficult that any other admission at the graduate level. More difficult than getting into law school, medical school, engineering school - anything. Getting in ANYWHERE is a fabulous achievement. Well done. Now go out and do some incredible research! :)

  5. 5 hours ago, HopefullyDr said:

    I am so confused (and also frustrated). At the beginning of application season, I got two interview invitations fairly quickly and then was offered admission to my second choice. This gave me some confidence about the my applications, but I've received more rejections. I am feeling insecure and, although I am thrilled that I was accepted into a program, I am wondering if I have tricked a school into accepting me. If I only am being wanted at one school, am I actually qualified for obtaining a Ph.D? I still have to wait for a few schools to send decisions, but I am fairly certain that they will be rejection letters.

    Given how ruthless the scrutiny is at every school, you should absolutely banish the thought that you tricked anyone into giving you admission. This cycle the admissions process has apparently been brutal. There have been a greater number of applicants this year than ever before. So if someone has offered you admission, it is because they think you are the perfect fit for them. Nothing else. 
    And admission depends on so many factors that have nothing to do with your specific skill sets that I don't think anyone should take a rejection personally. You have got one. That's the exact number of places you can say yes to. So say yes and congratulate yourself. You have done the (almost) impossible :)

  6. 6 hours ago, 8BitJourney said:

    Just finished interviewing at one of my top ranked programs and it was everything I wanted. Except one thing: we won't know admissions decisions till early March XD I wished we were notified earlier just for the fact that I don't want to hold onto interview slots that could go to other great applicants :/

    That's really amazing 8Bit. I guess there is nothing you can do about the other interviews lined up for the moment but just interview everywhere you have been invited. How fabulous it would be when you get the chance to compare several offers before picking the best one. Congratulations! 

  7. 17 minutes ago, psychapp2016 said:

    Has anyone heard back from UC Berkeley after interviews? I expect we'll hear by the end of this week but wondering if acceptances started going out last week?

    Berkeley confirmations started being sent out at the end of January / first week of Feb itself. You may want to mail them to check your status there. 

  8. 38 minutes ago, George J said:

    Does anyone have any advice for someone who was just placed pretty low on the alternate list? 

    as if i wasn't already depressed enough because its valentines day this week :(

    Honestly you can only just sit it out and wait to see how the final admissions list looks like. What will be, will be. No need to get upset about anything. You've done the best you could. Now it's totally out of your hands. Why fret over something.that you have no control over at all? I hope you get into the program of your choice this cycle itself. Good luck!

  9. 4 hours ago, ysi2010 said:

    Hi,

    In the very fortunate case that one is in a position to choose among more than one offer, it abnormal to reach out to a potential mentor/adviser or a DCT after being admitted but before making a decision? To ask questions/get info to help evaluate? Is it better to talk to their students? Is it best to not talk to anyone but just reach out once a decision is made?

    I think you have every right to connect with your POI to clarify any doubts that you have about accepting the admission offer. Honestly it will be good for both of you. Its a 5 year journey (at least). It's crucial that you are totally aligned with the lab you choose to join. No one minds answering questions really. If you can speak with some grad student in that lab first it might be more helpful but definitely you should feel free to address all doubts before taking a final call. Congratulations on the multiple hits. Hope they are all so good that the final decision about where to finally join gets really difficult for you to make :)

  10. 7 hours ago, FacelessMage said:

    I actually had an AWFUL interview at the school where I got accepted (cried for a good 20 minutes after because I felt lousy about it). Evidently that didn't matter. On the other hand, I've had interviews where I've felt super confident about where I've then not been accepted (or even waitlisted). I'm a nervous interviewer, so I'm never quite sure what to do. Just go in, know your stuff, be excited about life (but not too excited), and have fun with it. Having a pre-interview pump up song helps as well (I've been listening to "Be a Man" from Mulan before!). 

    I wish there was a way to know for sure what works. I have basically put it down to being lucky. It is a given that we are all prepared going into the interview, we are all good enough to be there, we all know our stuff. What happens next is a function of chance as much as of anything else. Perfect present fit, future fit, great GRE's, strong publications, brilliant LoR's - God alone know what makes it works. Sometimes people with all of these also end up getting sidelined for some reason. So honestly, there is no straight formula that applies here. BUT I hope that all of us have greater luck in the process than we had even hoped for! 

  11. 52 minutes ago, Rose1128 said:

    Thanks, yeah they definitely haven't pressured me at all; it's more my own worry. I did tell them I was excited and highly considering it and would let them know asap. I hope I conveyed the amount of excitement I do feel. I also said thank you like 5,000 times lol

    5000 times is just the right number of times you should say thank you on being accepted. It is a great moment for you and you should enjoy it to the fullest. Picking which offer to accept is the only sort of acceptable anxiety one should have to endure this season. Many congratulations :)

     

  12. 4 minutes ago, 8BitJourney said:

     

    Honestly I haven't had potential faculty specifically point out publications as much as 'increased productivity' which can encapsulate a lot of things. Are publications great? Of course, its the kicker, but some schools restrict undergrad contribution to articles or its just not possible at the time the applicant is in that lab. However, if you can show you've been productive in other ways (and have your Recommenders compliment this in their letters) you can still have a pretty strong case.

    Such as: helping with grant writing, organizing a manual or creating a fidelity checklist, changing how recruitment and retention/tracking is carried out, doing a school based research symposia or honors thesis (undergrads are generally broke and may not be able to get a travel award/funding), going from an RA to a coordinator, applying for a fellowship (just saying you applied can put you in a good light). These can all help to show maturity and growth as a future researcher.

    Great points 8bit. Much more valid than my understanding! Hope your interview related travel situation is all sorted out? 

  13. 50 minutes ago, Bach said:

    Same... did receive an acceptance to an MA program.  I have one interview for a PhD program which is what I want.  4.0 GPA, good GRE and excellent LORs.

    From the little that I know, the most important thing is to have strong publications and a perfect fit with the lab you want to be admitted to. Again, I am not an expert but I would suggest reading through all the publications of your desired lab you can find online, particularly the ones with your POI as first or second author. See how closely what you want to do is aligned with these papers. Then write to your POI explaining what you want to do and how that work will take forward the work being done in his /her lab. Your published researches will establish your ability to do research and place you at a level where your research competence will not be questioned (if at all something like this is done!). It's also about getting lucky. Your cohorts may be strong one year, not so strong another year. It's just so many things that must come together that it's crazy. In any case there is still time. Hopefully some interview calls will come through still. Good luck! 

  14. 4 minutes ago, Eigen said:

    There are several ways. All of the moderators and administrators can be sent a PM, or you can open a report. 

    Reports are visible to all of the moderation team, and we don't handle reports about our own actions. 

    I will note that most of us take a bit of time to respond to things. Most of the moderation staff are faculty now, and come with the resulting busy schedule that lets us check in at defined times during the day. 

    Wow. Given that you are faculty, there is the possibility that some of you could be reviewing the applications of some of us here. THERE goes my chance of making a good impression during the interviews!!!! But on a serious note - thank you and sorry for having caused so much inconvenience!

  15. 3 hours ago, Eigen said:

    I'm going to respond here, because the moderation decisions made in this thread were not done by a single individual but by the moderating team as a whole. We actually do discuss things before we do them. 

    Several users got warnings for extremely abusive use of the rating system (going back over the course of a few hours and down voting every post made, whether the content was objectionable or not), as well as abusive behavior such as pooling information about a user to try to make it easier for an admissions committee/external source to identify the user, with the hope that posts here would reflect negatively on them. 

    Going back and individually checking each reputation given is nearly impossible to do, but with the extreme abuse of the system (and warnings given out), we decided that resetting the reputation was the best way to go. Each post still has reputation tied to it, but the dozens of unwarranted and abusive down votes should not follow someone around for the rest of their time here. 

    I can appreciate disagreeing with moderation decisions, but derailing a thread even more because you disagree with them, without even trying to work it out with the moderation staff, not to mention the personal attacks (blatant dishonesty and unprofessional) just because you did not like being cited for your unprofessional behavior is over the line. Going back and hiding every one of your posts out of spite so they can't be useful to anyone else is just the icing on the cake. 

    Thank you @Eigen and @fuzzylogician for taking the time to step in and mediate on this matter. I really hope we can all just put this behind us and focus on doing the best we can through the rest of the application season. Small disagreements and their resolution only make the community stronger. I hope that is how it works for us here as well. Good luck to everyone for all the interviews ahead. Stay strong and stay safe!

  16. 5 hours ago, 8BitJourney said:

    The cudcp guidelines say that it's common practice that applicants can wait till April 15 before accepting any offer but more than 2 offers shouldn't be held at one time. Granted I'm sure you don't want to wait that long to accept any and a kindly worded email thanking admissions/the poi but letting them know that "you're weighing another offer (But still seriously considering theirs) since is still early in the process" should be understandable If you're a competitive applicant. For the wording of this email I highly suggest you get a mentor or faculty to provide input though...

    Btw thanks for your concern :) I got a late email from the coordinator who's working hard to get me a Skype interview/rectify the situation. It's just messy because so many schools had interviews this week and I already couldn't attend the main day.

    I really hope you get all your interviews in - on campus and over Skype. The good bit about all of this is that there are only a few weeks to go before it is all decided. How exciting! Have fun in the interviews and let them know you are fabulous :) 

  17. 5 hours ago, 8BitJourney said:

    The cudcp guidelines say that it's common practice that applicants can wait till April 15 before accepting any offer but more than 2 offers shouldn't be held at one time. Granted I'm sure you don't want to wait that long to accept any and a kindly worded email thanking admissions/the poi but letting them know that "you're weighing another offer (But still seriously considering theirs) since is still early in the process" should be understandable If you're a competitive applicant. For the wording of this email I highly suggest you get a mentor or faculty to provide input though...

    Btw thanks for your concern :) I got a late email from the coordinator who's working hard to get me a Skype interview/rectify the situation. It's just messy because so many schools had interviews this week and I already couldn't attend the main day.

    Thanks 8BitJourney for the guidance. I think the method you have suggested is the best way to go about this. Thanks again and good luck with your interview(s) this weekend!

  18. 23 minutes ago, 8BitJourney said:

    A tote bag is fine but please wear boots. With the recent weather shift here you'll be miserable with heels or flats unless you plan to change at the site. But it'll be completely okay to wear nice boots

     

    2 hours ago, Psyched56 said:

    Another weather related inquiry - people interviewing at northern and potentially snowy schools (women) how are you handling the footwear situation? Should I bring shoes and change or just nix heels and wear flats?

    Also, what kind of bag is everyone bringing around? Should I invest in a briefcase? I normally use backpacks/tote bags. Thanks!

    Honestly wear what is most comfortable and practical (within reason). The POI's all know that its a tough time weather wise and as long as one doesn't turn up looking like he/she just walked in out of a blizzard there should be no problem! And there is absolutely no need to buy a briefcase unless you think you will need it later. In any case at most schools there is a sort of waiting room where the applicants wait between interviews (if there are multiple interviews - with the POI, other Profs, Grad students etc). So you can easily leave your bag pack in this room and head to your interview with just your folder or diary or anything else you want to carry your things in.

  19. A question for those who have been here before - how much time do I have before I have to respond to the offer made by a school? I mean, after showing a lot of enthusiasm in a program and a POI over the past many months I can't suddenly go silent when they have made an offer, can I? I would like to wait till the results of some other schools are declared as well (which should be no later than the end of February) but what attitude do I take for now with the ones that have made a formal offer without getting their backs up? I know the bird in hand perspective but I'd really like to wait as well Thanks, in advance, for the advice :)

  20. 4 hours ago, 8BitJourney said:

     

    Ditto, the calming elevator music is doing nothing for me right now

     

    ETA: Finally got through! The automatically bumped me to the next flight. Bad news is my other interview was cancelled. FUUUUUUU-

    This is crazy. You need to write to your POI and the grad office about this. There is no way they can cancel your interview slot because of this weather emergency. They HAVE to allow you to interview over Skype. Come on - everyone is doing it these days, so why not this school? Send out an email to your POI and request that you not be penalized for the doings of an inclement weather!

  21. 14 minutes ago, ServeNStudy said:

    Anybody else currently in a panic over cancelled flights due to inclement weather in the NorthEast that might prevent timely arrival for interviews? I emailed the coordinator to let her know I'm working on re-booking my travel arrangements but haven't heard anything in reply. This is my first choice school and super competitive so I am freaking out a bit! Ack!

    ServeNStudy you honestly don't need to worry about this. I got a message from one of the schools I was to visit this weekend saying that in case I was unable to make it due to the weather, they would be happy to schedule a Skype interview instead. I am actually not going in any case and had informed them 2 days ago itself but they probably haven't taken me off their interview mailing list yet. Basically schools are taking cognizance of the weather and are factoring that into their schedule. So even if you haven't heard back yet, I am reasonably certain that there is nothing to feel concerned about! 

  22. 7 hours ago, DrHope said:

    Thank you to responses I received on my earlier post. Everyone I've talked to says "get more research" or "get on a publication" but how does one go about doing those things? I am obviously not in school anymore and work a full time job that has nothing to do with psychology just to pay bills. I just don't know the process of getting on research projects or publications when I'm not living close to a school that has professors doing clinical research. This is all a very new process for me so Any and all feedback welcomed. 

    So the little that I have figured out in this admission cycle (my first) is that the most crucial component of any application is the research that you have done. I know lots of people with 330+ GRE's and 4.0 GPA's. I am not sure how important these things are in the final analysis. Well, they serve as a great way to thin out a list of applicants to the really competitive programs but in all the interviews I did this cycle I did not have a single comment on any of the academic awards I have nor my GRE scores. Every single interview focused ONLY on the research work I had done and every discussion centered around my publications and their relevance to that particular lab. So, in my humble opinion, (and I could be completely wrong), publications are the most important part of your application (to many though not all schools). If you can't join a lab, contact a POI early in the season (by March when this cycle gets done) and ask how you can conduct some research under his/ her mentorship. That will allow you to stay connected with your POI and also remind the Professor of both your existence and your ability. But you HAVE to get some strong research work in if you are looking at a good school (though I think every school tends to be equally competitive). Mail your POI and ask for guidance on how to work with him on a paper. Initially it will be the literature review etc which will get you into the project and by the time you are designing your research you would have a fairly good idea of how to go about the data collection and other aspects that you will need to manage on your own. As I said, I could be wrong but this has worked out fairly well for me so far. Good luck!

  23. A vindictive individual can not claim to serve any society or community. Such individuals serve only their own pettiness. And incidentally I have responded in great detail to anyone who has bothered to mail me in private. I am hesitant to name my POI here because I am wary of vindictive individuals who might choose to contact my POI(s) and attempt to falsely discredit me before them. I do realize that this is a difficult time for everyone (as it was for me till just a few days ago when things fell nicely into place), but at no stage till I take to abusing or harassing any individual. 

    And I do agree ServeNStudy that this entire admissions process needs to be revisited to make it less distressing for all concerned!

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