Just thought I would share this post in the correct forum:
On 4/6/2019 at 2:56 PM, esslepea said:
“Hello everyone! I'd love it if you would try to talk me OUT of the school(s) that you are hoping to receive offers from. I have offers from U of A, Western, and U of T and each program has different aspects that really appeal to me, but it's hard to compare a list of positives. Why not try approaching it from the other side then? I think dealbreakers can be easier to recognize than "dealmakers".
As an example of what I'm getting at, to one person, Toronto is expensive but SO WORTH IT to be in a big city with so much going on . To another, paying so much money just to have a life of crowds and commuting and concrete and constant noise sounds AWFUL. Both takes are equally honest/genuine, but people are going to differ a lot in which perspective resonates with them.
So without further ado, please share why your preferred school might NOT be a good fit for someone else. You never know what might make someone realize they wouldn't be as happy in one program or city as they could be somewhere else, and if they turn down their offer someone will be drawn from the waiting list you're on. It's win-win! “
For myself personally, one of the negatives of UofA is the city itself as well as the weather there. (This is just my opinion also! I know plenty of people who love Edmonton or that this is not an issue for them.) While I know they have a great program, I know it would be hard for myself if I’m not happy with where I live. I also just don’t see myself in Alberta, that’s not where I want to work after I graduate so I’m choosing to go to a university that is closer to where I hope to end up working, so that I can make more local connections.