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    NotYourMothersGrad reacted to stressednsleepdeprived in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    I thought it was weird too. Over a month since interviews and absolutely no update. Is it possible they decided to take no students? 
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from stressednsleepdeprived in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    So has no one heard from U of Tulsa post interview? Super weird.
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    NotYourMothersGrad reacted to forensicsfan in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    This. Application season [frankly application year(s)] is incredibly draining and causes so much self doubt. I tend to be a pretty optimistic and fairly confident person, but doctoral applications called that all into question. I know the original poster's question is more nuanced to their situation, but I wanted to add my two cents. I see quite a few posts encouraging applicants to pursue more research opportunities rather than MA/MS programs when looking to become a more competitive applicant. And this can be great advice! Research opportunities (especially when paid!) are great and provide wonderful insight into your own research interests as well as how to conduct empirically-sound studies. 
    However, I would not outright discount MA/MS programs. Of course, cost of tuition and living need to be taken into account (even in a funded Masters), but I found that doing an M.A. helped me immensely when it came to my second application season. I told my professors from the get-go that my end goal was a clinical PhD program, and together we created a game plan. With their guidance, I developed and spear-headed multiple projects, many of which led to publications and presentations (which my CV had been sorely lacking). Additionally, my M.A. GPA showed that I could handle graduate work, and the mandatory internship helped boost my clinical experience as well. I went from being soundly rejected the first application season to have 6 acceptances this season.
    Am I saying that an M.A. will guarantee you access to a PhD? Not at all. Additionally, if a MA/MS will put you in debt, I would ask you to seriously think about how that debt will affect your future before deciding anything. There are other ways to gain valuable research/clinical experience.  However, I know for a fact that my M.A. helped me become more competitive for this season, and it taught me a lot of valuable lessons!
    TLDR: Either a research position or MA/MS is a good option as long as you consider how it will affect you, your goals, and your future. Worked for me, but it is not everyone's cup of tea!
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    NotYourMothersGrad reacted to animalpaws96 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    Hi there! ? I can completely understand and relate to where you are coming from! If I have any advice to give from my experience, it would be to continue working for another year, building up your CV and experience that much more, and then preparing to apply again for another cycle! This was my 3rd application cycle (the previous two years I received all rejections), but this year I also applied to a Master's program as a backup, just in case I didn't get into one of the PhD programs I applied to. I got accepted into the master's program with a full-time research assistant position, and I really liked the school and the research/PI... but I also knew I would be settling a bit because my goal is to ultimately go on the PhD track. However, to my surprise, shortly after receiving my master's program acceptance, I also got waitlisted for two of the PhD programs (after interviews in February)... (I felt mixed emotions about being waitlisted... for a while, I was just disappointed and frustrated, but eventually I found peace with it, because it was just a waiting game at that point)... But now, several weeks later (about a month!), I just received a call from the PI at my top-choice PhD program -- and they extended an offer of admission to me with a full tuition scholarship, teaching assistantship, doctoral summer fellowship, and a stipend! (Turns out the delay in acceptance was due to waiting for funding approval!) 

    I also had a great deal of involved research experience (3.5 years) in various labs; two 1st author papers, eight conference presentations, and only minimal lay counseling/clinical experience (~2 years). 

    I'll admit that going through a third cycle was tough... I really hunkered down and focused pretty much solely on applications from August-December whenever I got home from work... And then it especially got tough when it got to the waiting period (over the past few months!)... And of course, receiving more rejection letters was certainly not fun ?, but honestly, I felt more prepared this time around and like I had stronger personal statements/better application materials all around -- plus, I was able to use my persistence and perseverance (in applying again and again despite rejections) as evidence of my passion for pursuing the PhD and for my ability to not give up even when it gets tough! ❤️) This cycle was the first time I got interviews, waitlists, and acceptances -- I'd say it's great you've already gotten a couple interviews and an acceptance (even if to a Masters program) on what I presume to be your second application cycle! So, my advice would be to not give up if you know this is what you really want! One thing that kept me going was how one of my favorite professors from undergrad told me that it took him a few cycles to get in to his program -- yet he was one of the best professors I ever could have asked for!! - and so I used that as my motivation, and I'm so thankful I did!! I hope this helps -- try to listen to your heart and whatever gut feeling you have! If you have any more questions, I'd be happy to answer them!! You're definitely not alone!! Don't lose hope!
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from IHopeIGIN in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from rainbow56 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    Yes, and it freaks me out every time.
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from Psy-aye-aye in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from Starlife in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from clinical09878 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    Yes, and it freaks me out every time.
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    NotYourMothersGrad reacted to clinical09878 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    Is anyone else getting weird emails from Miami University? Like "congratulations! your application has been submitted" and "your application is being processed"??
    Like does this mean they are just now opening it... I don't understand.? They had interviews a while back.
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from HopefulScholar2021 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from spicemelange in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from psychhopeful19 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from lets-hope in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from questioningpsych in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from Oxford_comma2 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from rainbow56 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from nav.psych in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from Psyched21 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from PsychMamaof2 in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from falantern in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from justacigar in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from MyAmygdalaDoesn'tLikeThis in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    *Email notification on my phone*
    Me: oh my god oh my god
    *opens email* "Dear XXX, Please find your decision letter attached."
    Me: is literally dying inside, opens the PDF letter
    "Dear XXX, We are happy to inform you of your selection as an alternate-"
    .....screams
    thank you for coming to my TED talk
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    NotYourMothersGrad reacted to K31D1Psych in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    Didn’t hear back from any of my schools, but I did just get an email from a school I didn’t even apply to inviting me to open house. :’) At least there’s that. At least I got a new email to wake up to. 
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    NotYourMothersGrad got a reaction from Copingwithcarbs in Fall 2021 Clinical & Counseling PhD/PsyD   
    A bunch of people have given up their acceptances to my PI and yet I still haven't been reached out to. I know I'm a terrible interviewer but its incredibly sad that I'm at the bottom of the list. I can't believe I got a ton of interviews only to not get accepted anywhere. I'm feeling for everyone in the same boat right now.
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