@Mukhil @Leida Hm. Lots to think about here, for sure. Really, what I'm looking for is a good sense of community, and a place where I can hone my craft, since I learn best in academic environments. And this needs to not come at the cost of my partner's career. Which is why my options become significantly more limited.
I'll keep a watchful eye on the Draft group. I will probably still apply to Columbia. I think my decision to apply to Hunter is more solidified, now, though! And I'll keep my fingers crossed for good results with applications from more funded programs. I am trying to cast a wide net.
Random other thought - I thought Jess goes/went to Columbia? Was she unhappy with her experience there?