
grad_wannabe
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What surprised you the most going through this whole process?
grad_wannabe replied to budgie's topic in 2010-2015 Archive
it's not over yet!!! Hang in there! -
Preach. My coworkers today got seriously disgusted with me. Coworker: "Hey, you must be pretty happy that all of your applications are in, right? What are you doing with all that energy?" Me: "Um, it's all condensed into a black hole of anxiety and compulsive email checking." Coworker: "... are you serious? What the hell? Why would you do that to yourself?" Edit: for what it's worth, I HIGHLY recommend the Chrome Page Monitor plug in. Now instead of manually entering all of my programs into the Results Search over and over, I hit one button to check for all of them.
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AAH I'm the EXACT same way. I'll lay in bed staring at Work Project, berating myself for being unable to start it, wondering what the hell is wrong with me, sure I'm going to get fired any second. Then usually just before the deadline I'll get that final mental push of motivation, sit down and crank out work for 15 straight hours. Next project, rinse and repeat... I'm really started to wonder if I have some kind of problem. Everyone keeps saying "oh you're working too hard!" and I want to say "but you weren't there when I was laying in bed loathing myself for three straight days..."
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I'm glad I'm not the only one whose heart filled with dread upon reading that post!
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Waiting Game--how do you deal with the waiting anxiety?
grad_wannabe replied to procedural memory's topic in Waiting it Out
Can you walk us through how you do this? -
Bowling Green State University Admission Letters
grad_wannabe replied to msgrad2015's topic in Waiting it Out
http://www.thegradcafe.com/survey/index.php?q=Bowling+Green+Rhetoric+and+Writing Looks like you'll have to wait til mid-to-late February. -
Please help grade my scandal GRE essay! Got a low AWA score.
grad_wannabe replied to Sandysum's topic in GRE/GMAT/etc
I had the same experience. First time around I gave full reign to my natural inclination towards verbosity. Got a 5.5 Second time around I tried to reflect the recent strides I've been trying to take in my own writing: wrote more clearly, more succinctly, more directly, more active voice. Got a 5.0. -
I think people are sick of hearing me talk about it at this point. I'm a little embarrassed.
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You've got this. They're bringing you in because they want you in their program. They're all rooting for you, and we are too!
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School A: the graduate director (not the professor with whom I'd interviewed via phone) called my cell and told me over the phone that I'd been accepted, then in the same call told me I'd been awarded a full fellowship and TAship. The call came in the morning, because I remember talking to him from my car, in the parking garage at work. School B: the graduate director (the person with whom I'd Skyped) called my cell and told me I'd been admitted and that funding information would come later. After a week or so (fuzzy on the details now) a letter arrived in the mail (a single page, not a big package like you'd think) outlining the funding offer. School C: the email came Sunday evening. There'd been no interview. The graduate director emailed me a fairly short note, something like "Congratulations, I'm very happy to accept you into the program. The funding information will arrive soon." A few days later (again, fuzzy on how many) the letter arrived (again, single page) with the funding offer. School D: waitlisted via email. After I made my choice of C, I called the guys from A and B and let them know of my decision. Edit: and for what it's worth, choosing between my top 2 picks was very, VERY hard, even tougher than the applications themselves. They were very different programs, at opposite ends of the country. I felt like an entire possible life was dying for either choice, like a Sliding Doors scenario, I had to choose which life I wanted. That was a tough time, full of apprehension.
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Waiting Game--how do you deal with the waiting anxiety?
grad_wannabe replied to procedural memory's topic in Waiting it Out
I keep checking my application status page. They all still say "Submitted." -
My professor mentioned that yes, this is a thing (especially if you'd already visited the campus and/or corresponded with your PI). "You may not even get called for an interview. Sometimes that happens, when they're sure of someone." Take it as a compliment! CONGRATS!
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Yeah I was worried about that. In an attempt to diversify my approach, for one of my programs I refrained from attempting any POI contact. Never emailed or wrote to them whatsoever, just submitted the app. All the POIs with whom I'd had some interaction (6 out of 7 apps), I sent the "app is officially in" email. Of course, remains to be seen which approach will yield results!
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When Will Schools Begin to Respond?
grad_wannabe replied to AnxiousUrbanPlanner's topic in Waiting it Out
My acceptance email for my master's arrived on a Sunday evening. -
Blatant typos in email from POI: worry/ndb?
grad_wannabe replied to bookofkels_'s topic in Anthropology Forum
One of my profs actually has his signature set to "sent from a mobile device, please excuse typos" because they're so common. -
When Will Schools Begin to Respond?
grad_wannabe replied to AnxiousUrbanPlanner's topic in Waiting it Out
Oh man -- talk about the horns of a dilemma!