iExcelAtMicrosoftPuns Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Great advice all around. This has probably been mentioned elsewhere (I've never really gone on/used GradCafe, at least the forums) but I'll mention it anyway, especially for current undergrads who are waiting to apply/on the fence: Take at least a year off after graduation to do "something else," preferably outside of an academic environment. Again, your professors, advisers, parents, friends, other close contacts, etc will likely have told you this, but that extra year really does help. Take on projects, jobs, or hobbies outside of your intellectual fields of interest, or even something 'non-intellectual' - but still productive! - altogether. I spent last summer visiting family abroad before coming back home to work as a proofreader/editor for a pharmaceutical company, where I still am at the moment. (I probably got a bit lucky because I also have a science background, and that apparently made me 'appealing' to the recruiter who found me.) Proofreading is hardly a glorious job, but it's a good skill to have and the pay is decent. On a related note: saving money helps! The most important aspect of this experience, however, has been getting to know not only people from all sorts of backgrounds - English/humanities, medical, legal, regulatory, business/marketing - but also the overall corporate structure. Even a glimpse of how the world outside of the academy really works can be 'enlightening' in both the positive and negative senses of the word. And I found that non-academic perspective to be very helpful in my approach to the application process: it made me a better communicator (face-to-face, on the phone, via e-mail, etc), exposed me to professionalism (and sometimes lack thereof) in the 'workplace,' and gave me more time to explore/read about fields/pursue activities outside of my personal interests. This proofreading job also convinced me, ironically, that I couldn't stay here forever, for logistical and personal reasons. As for applying to schools after senior year - it's still stressful, to be sure, but not as stressful as juggling applications with undergrad responsibilities. Keep close and regular contact with professors whom you want to write your rec letters (e-mail, call, or even drop by during office hours if you're still in the area). They'll understand. Long story short: Take some time off for yourself after undergrad. It really helps. Best of luck, fall 2014 applicants and beyond! I have to weigh in here. A. Probably doesn’t need to be said but here it is – take all advice with a grain of salt. Shotgun advice misses and hits. B. The year off advice is regurgitated a lot. Good intentions there (exploring the world of possibilities / getting experience) but don’t fool yourself. I’m from a city with a deflated economy; my peers, as awesome as they are, struggle to get local jobs with their humanities degree. Not everyone can afford the social and economic risks associated with relocating. A year off is a luxury. If you can, do it – enjoy yourself. Read. Work. Swim, whatever. But don’t fool yourself thinking that a year off is something you ought to struggle through. And don’t fool yourself that you should consider it “time for yourself”. As a matter of fact, I think we should all be developing coping strategies for the stress and work load that we will eventually face. So that’s my advice. Figure out how much you can take. Figure out how to take more. Don’t burn out. kayrabbit, Imaginary, shortstack51 and 3 others 6
rachelann1991 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 (edited) I'm 22, a baby just coming out of undergrad, and I'm starting to get INCREDIBLY nervous about jumping straight into a Ph.D. program! I keep wondering whether I should have done a M.A. first or, even more, whether I should have done a gap-year like the advice in the above forum posts very smartly suggested, but I've made my decision and I have to deal with it, so now I'll try to justify it to myself and to you 2015ers who bravely want to do the same thing I'm embarking on! My professors all advised me with some words of wisdom and comfort about going straight on, so, 2015ers, I'll tell you why they (and hopefully me, eventually, once I get some confidence) think that moving straight on might not be such a bad idea for some people: 1. You're still in "school mode," so you might have more motivation to continue in that mindset, and you won't need to reset yourself once you're back in an academic setting. 2. The job market is bad in ANY and EVERY field, (I know, no shit, sherlock), so it might be more trouble than it's worth to find a temporary year-long job, and it might not even be financially the best thing in the grand scheme of your life. Especially if you have student loans, the chance to defer makes grad school the better potential option financially. 3. (1+2 were my professors, but this one's mine!) If you're dead serious about this, if you KNOW you want a Ph.D/M.A, why put off the inevitable? I know being an English professor is the only thing I'll ever wake up every day wanting to do, so, for me, doing a year of something else just wastes time and delays the life I want. Every minute I'm not reading or writing feels . . . like I'm not being ME. TL;DR: If you feel burnt out, if you need more time to work on your applications, if you need to feel more sure that a graduate degree is what you want, take a year off! Heck, even if you think it would make you happy to travel or something before more school for no other reason than you feel like it, DO IT!!! But, if you're feeling like anything besides graduate school would be a waste of time, don't feel like you HAVE to take a year off simply because that's the best path for someone else. Now, for all I know I could be full of crap and an idiot for starting a program so young and admittedly from such a sheltered little life, but only time will tell if you should listen to my advice, dear 2015ers Edited April 26, 2014 by rachelann1991 unræd, kayrabbit, Dr. Old Bill and 3 others 6
ProfLorax Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Hi All! I'm emerging from the fog of new motherhood to add to the wisdom in this thread. I know that some of you plan on having kids while in grad school. If you do, make that a priority when deciding among programs. Find out what each university offers its grad students for parental leave and talk to students with kids to learn more about the departmental culture surrounding families. Some universities offer no guaranteed parental leave for grad students; others offer too little. For example, I believe UIUC only offers two weeks. At two weeks, I could barely walk around the block, breastfeeding wasn't established, and I was zombie. Even if you aren't giving birth or if you are adopting, two weeks just isn't enough time to figure out a routine (I use the term routine lightly since there is no real routine with infants, but there can be a solid routine between partners). Now, if a university doesn't offer much or any leave, the department could be very welcoming and accommodating. The opposite is true too. That's why it's also important to talk to grad student parents. In my experience, they (I guess we!) are incredibly honest about their experiences. When I was choosing my program, I asked all of these questions in large orientation meeting, to the DGS in small meetings, to my potential advisors, etc. No one revoked my offer or stopped trying to recruit me once they learned of my plans. The more grad students who ask these questions, the more programs have to face that their recruits are people who want and need accommodations. I'm so happy I did this because I ended up at a program that (partially because of policy, culture, and timing) gave me three months of parental leave. Plus, I rearranged my teaching load, so I don't have to teach until September. My independent study professor has three kids herself and is incredibly supportive, so I get to bring my daughter to our meetings. This means that we don't have to figure out childcare until the fall, and I don't lose my stipend, access to the library, or benefits. So, if you want to have ze babies while a grad student, definitely do your research while you're selecting a program! mikers86, pannpann, bgt28 and 3 others 6
Dr. Old Bill Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Great advice as always, Proflorax! As an older student with a wife and no kids, the "baby" question is always relevant. We have no specific plans in that regard at this point, but if I do get accepted somewhere, I will be sure to add this to my list of questions. Speaking of "list of questions," what is the general post-acceptance process? Maybe this is the wrong thread to ask such a thing, but...do you typically email a bunch of questions to the DGS? Do you prepare a list of questions to discuss in person? I'm a little curious (and cart-before-horsing, I might add...)
Popular Post lyonessrampant Posted January 14, 2015 Popular Post Posted January 14, 2015 Take a list of questions with you. There was a great thread on this back when I applied, and I took this and asked them of the DGS when meeting with her, grad students I met there, and some here with people at the schools I was considering. Depending on where you go, you'll probably be put in contact with a current grad student. These people are great resources, and most will answer your questions directly about both strengths and weaknesses of programs. I just looked to see if I still had this list in an old folder, and here it is. -PLACES TO STUDY AND WORK -Where do most people do their writing and reading? -What study spaces are available? Do students get a carrel? Do those who teach get or share an office? -LIBRARY -What is the library system like? Are the stacks open or closed? -What are the library hours? -Are there specialized archives/primary sources that would be useful to my research? -Are there specialist librarians who can help me with my research? -FACULTY -Are the faculty members I want to work with accepting new students? Are any of those faculty members due for a sabbatical any time soon? -Are professors willing to engage you on a personal level rather than just talking about your work? -Are there any new professors the department is hiring in areas that align with my interests? -Students’ relationships with their professors – are they primarily professional, or are they social as well? -FUNDING -Is funding competitive? If so, do students feel a distinction between those who have received more generous funding and those who haven’t? -How does funding break down among the cohort? i.e., how many people receive fellowships? -How, if you don’t have much savings, do you make enough money to live comfortably? -Are there external fellowships one can apply to? If so, what is available? Does the program help you apply for these fellowships? How does receiving an external fellowship affect internal funding? -If people need more than five/six years to finish, what funding resources are available? (For instance, Columbia can give you an additional 2-year teaching appointment.) -Do you provide funding for conferences or research trips? -How often is funding disbursed? (i.e., do you get paid monthly or do you have to stretch a sum over a longer period of time?) -COHORT -Do students get along with each other? Is the feeling of the program more collaborative than competitive? -Do students in different years of the program collaborate with each other, or are individual cohorts cliquey? -How many offers are given out, and what is the target number of members for an entering class? -Ages/marital status of people in the cohort – do most people tend to be married with families? Are there younger people? Single people? What sense do you have of how the graduate students interact with each other socially? -Do people seem happy? If they’re stressed, is it because they’re busy or is it because they’re anxious/depressed/cynical/disillusioned? -Is the grad secretary/program administrator nice? -What is the typical time to completion? What are the factors that slow down or speed up that time? -I’ve read that there are two kinds of attrition: “good” attrition, in which people realize that the program, or graduate study, isn’t right for them and leave early on, and “bad” attrition, in which people don’t finish the dissertation. What can you tell me about the rates of each, and of the reasons why people have chosen to leave the program? -JOB MARKET/PROFESSIONALIZATION -What is the placement rate? How many of those jobs are tenure-track? -What are examples of institutions in which people in my field have been placed? -How does the department prepare you for the job search? Are there mock interviews and mock job talks? -Are the people helping you navigate the job search people who have recently gone through the process themselves? -If you don’t get placed, is there anything the department can do for you? (e.g., can you stay an extra year?) -How does the department prepare you for and help you attain conference presentations and publications? -SUMMER WORK -What is encouraged/required? -If there separate funding/is the year-round funding enough to live on during the summer? -Do people find themselves needing to get outside work during the summer in order to have enough money? -Am I expected to stay in town in the summer, and what happens if I don’t? -LANGUAGE REQUIREMENT -What is done to help people who don’t have language proficiency attain it? Does the university provide funding? -What is the requirement, and by when do you have to meet it? -Given my research interests, what languages should I study? -When do you recommend doing the work necessary to fulfill the language requirement? (i.e., summer before first year, summer after first year, while taking classes, etc.) -LOCATION REQUIREMENTS -How long are students required to be in residence? -How many students stay in the location for the duration of the program? (i.e., how many dissertate in residence?) -How is funding affected if you don’t stay? -Incompletes on papers at the end of the term: What is the policy, how many students take them, and how does this affect progress through the program? -TEACHING -What sort of training is provided? -What types of courses do people teach? -Does teaching entail serving as a grader? Serving as a TA? Developing and teaching a section of comp? -How are students placed as TAs? Is there choice about what classes you teach and which professors you work with? Do classes correspond to your field? -How many courses do you teach per semester/year? -How many students are in your classes? -How does the school see teaching as fitting in with the other responsibilities/requirements of graduate study? -How do students balance teaching with their own work? -Is the department more concerned with training you as a teacher/professor or with having cheap labor to teach their classes? -How, if at all, does the economic downturn affect teaching load/class sizes? -What are the students like? Can I sit in on a course a TA teaches to get a sense of them? -METHODOLOGY -Is a theory course required? -What methodology do most people use? -Where, methodologically, do you see the department – and the discipline – heading? -Is interdisciplinarity encouraged, and what sorts of collaboration have students undertaken? -Typical graduate class and seminar sizes -What should I do to prepare over the summer? -Ask people I know: What are the questions – both about the program itself and about the location – I should ask that will most help me get a feel for whether this is the right program for me? -Ask people I know: What do you wish you knew or wish you had asked before choosing a program? -Is the school on the semester or the quarter system, and how does that affect classes/teaching/requirements? -What is the course load for each semester, and how many courses are required? -What kind of support is provided while writing the dissertation? I worry about the isolation and anxiety of writing such a big project. What does the program do to help you break the dissertation down into manageable pieces, and to make the experience less isolating? -What do writing assignments look like in classes? Do they differ based on the type/level of class and/or based on whether you intend to specialize in the field? -Ask professors: what have you been working on lately? -Ask professors: What is your approach to mentoring and advising graduate students? -How long are class meetings? -How often do professors teach graduate courses? -Are course schedules available for future semesters (10-11, etc.)? -Can I see the grad student handbook? Are there any other departmental documents – such as reports on the program prepared for accreditation – that I can see? -QUALITY OF LIFE -Prices – how does the cost of gas, milk, cereal, etc. compare to other places I've lived in? -Cost and quality of typical one-bedroom apartment. -What does the university do to provide you with or help you find housing? -When (i.e., what month) do people start looking for an apartment for the fall, and where do they look? -Is it easy to find a summer subletter? -How close to campus can—and should—one live? -What grocery stores are there in town? -How late are cafes, bookstores, malls, restaurants typically open? -What do people do to make extra money? -Does the town have more of a driving or a walking culture? What is parking like near campus (availability, ease, cost)? -Where do most English grad students live? Most other grad students? Most professors? Where is the student ghetto? Do most students live near each other, or are they spread out far and wide? -How far does the stipend go in this location? Neist, dr. t, hypervodka and 63 others 2 64
Dr. Old Bill Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Holy moly, Lyonessrampant...that's a fantastic list! I'm out of upvotes for the day, sadly, but I'll be returning to this many times. Hugely helpful!
Katla Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 This is an amazing list Lyonessrampant!!! I feel so naive, I'm so consumed with worries about the getting in that I've not thought about what follows at all...
lyonessrampant Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Just passing on the grad cafe pearls Good luck all! yzo and Dr. Old Bill 1 1
Dr. Old Bill Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 I think I'm going to make it a personal crusade of mine to get you all the upvotes you deserve after the many years of great advice you've provided to GC!
lyonessrampant Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Aw thanks I'd upvote you, but I'm out of them. Who caps good feelings anyway? Dr. Old Bill 1
doc1 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I've been lurking here for awhile but now the anxiety is just munching away at my intestines too much for me to stay on the sidelines any longer. On the topic that Wyatt's Torch brought up about "post-acceptance process," is there a right way to respond to an acceptance e-mail? Beyond, thanks I'm excited? I just got accepted to MSU today and no word on funding yet and I honestly am not ready to force questions on the DGS or talk to other students right now. Is it totally inappropriate to say thanks, I need a moment to process and I likely will have questions later? (This is what a draft response e-mail says so far at least ) Also 1,000,000 apologies for asking this in probably the wrong place. I'm very very very ready to just be accepted, be rejected, and be out of limbo as many of us are, of course! BooksCoffeeBeards, Dr. Old Bill and Katla 3
InHacSpeVivo Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I've been lurking here for awhile but now the anxiety is just munching away at my intestines too much for me to stay on the sidelines any longer. On the topic that Wyatt's Torch brought up about "post-acceptance process," is there a right way to respond to an acceptance e-mail? Beyond, thanks I'm excited? I just got accepted to MSU today and no word on funding yet and I honestly am not ready to force questions on the DGS or talk to other students right now. Is it totally inappropriate to say thanks, I need a moment to process and I likely will have questions later? (This is what a draft response e-mail says so far at least ) Also 1,000,000 apologies for asking this in probably the wrong place. I'm very very very ready to just be accepted, be rejected, and be out of limbo as many of us are, of course! I got the same email today. I responded by thanking them and letting them know that I would probably have questions down the road. Nothing elaborate, mostly just a quick confirmation so they knew I recieved the message and was excited to hear from them.
doc1 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Congrats on your acceptance I'm glad to know that how I was thinking of responding is basically normal haha I know I'm an English major (and a 28 y/o adult), I swear I have at least semi-good communication skills and I can understand, evaluate, and respond to the rhetorical situation as necessary, but there's something about e-mailing professors that always gets to me. During my MA program I used to have one of my fellow grads proof my e-mails for me (one time he actually caught a typo, so that was a good system). Anyway, I appreciate the help! Katla 1
snyegurachka Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Congrats on your acceptance I'm glad to know that how I was thinking of responding is basically normal haha I know I'm an English major (and a 28 y/o adult), I swear I have at least semi-good communication skills and I can understand, evaluate, and respond to the rhetorical situation as necessary, but there's something about e-mailing professors that always gets to me. During my MA program I used to have one of my fellow grads proof my e-mails for me (one time he actually caught a typo, so that was a good system). Anyway, I appreciate the help! I had a professor make fun of me once for addressing all of my emails "Dear Professor..." I don't even know what is appropriate anymore.
doc1 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I had a professor make fun of me once for addressing all of my emails "Dear Professor..." I don't even know what is appropriate anymore. I hope it was only a gentle mocking and nothing too serious! As someone who has received student e-mails with no initial address, no sign off/signature, and all sorts of weird stuff in the body, choosing "dear professor" has to be a reasonable way to start an email to a professor! I have spent way too much time stressing about this as well though
Katla Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Congrats on your acceptance I'm glad to know that how I was thinking of responding is basically normal haha I know I'm an English major (and a 28 y/o adult), I swear I have at least semi-good communication skills and I can understand, evaluate, and respond to the rhetorical situation as necessary, but there's something about e-mailing professors that always gets to me. During my MA program I used to have one of my fellow grads proof my e-mails for me (one time he actually caught a typo, so that was a good system). Anyway, I appreciate the help! Tell me about it, I used to angst for days about how to write simple emails to my professors and lecturers -in fact, I still do, as my emails to my LORs bear embarrassing evidence of
InHacSpeVivo Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Congrats to you too, doc1! For all of us who have agonized over professor emails, this provided me at least some solace (or at least a good chuckle): http://www.phdcomics.com/comics/archive.php?comicid=1047 Ramus, BooksCoffeeBeards, Katla and 1 other 4
Katla Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 For all of us who have agonized over professor emails, this provided me at least some solace (or at least a good chuckle):http://www.phdcomics.com/comics/archive.php?comicid=1047 Hahaha! Brilliant! It's always good to be reminded how many of our fears are strictly in our own heads.
doc1 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 For all of us who have agonized over professor emails, this provided me at least some solace (or at least a good chuckle):http://www.phdcomics.com/comics/archive.php?comicid=1047 Very true haha I've managed to whittle my time down from 1.3 days to about 45 minutes, so I think I'm making some progress there!
silenus_thescribe Posted February 20, 2015 Posted February 20, 2015 I actually created an entirely new email address for my PhD applications so I wouldn't have to experience the stress of panicking with each new message. I highly recommend it. I should have said this months ago: thank you so, so much for this. This is one of the smartest tips I've gotten in this process.
BooksCoffeeBeards Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 I have also received many student emails with various titles. Professor/Prof/Dr, Mr, and my new favorite... Capt. Yes, Capt. No idea how that happened. But yeah. I was Capt. Scott for a bit. 1Q84 1
bhr Posted May 25, 2015 Posted May 25, 2015 I get Professor Last Initial emails, and, I'm not going to lie, I sort of love it. It makes me feel like an X-Man BooksCoffeeBeards 1
BooksCoffeeBeards Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 I get Professor Last Initial emails, and, I'm not going to lie, I sort of love it. It makes me feel like an X-Man That would be completely awesome.
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