I think more than just the research, it has to be sustainable for 5 years. Its great that you have savings, but is it sustainable for the 5+ years of the commitment? With the budget, will you be willing to room with someone? ( As I'm hitting my late 20s, I can't imagine having a roommate) Having a car in the city is tough, with alt parking, unless you are willing to pay for a garage (that will cost as much as rent in some places) you'll be amassing parking tickets. Unless it was your top program of choice, and really exited you might be stuck in a limbo after a year or two and it'll become really hard. I do know someone in the program (not developmental) with affiliation with Brooklyn that doesn't place the program too highly & the commute is really really bad, so staten island can't be that great either. If your interested, send me a PM and I can help get you in touch. Just remember, although it is a very important and tough decision, its not the end of the world. It's pretty clear from what you shared that the program, fit, budget, lifestyle isn't going to be good for you. Just don't settle on a program just of an acceptance! Good luck!!