Thanks a lot!
And thank you for the advice about their non-cuddlyness I will remember that. Anyway, I was not going to post anything there right away. I will most probably start by reading all interesting and relevant threads, or at least as many as possible. By the end I will get the feel of this place and will be able to choose my posting stratagy there wisely
I wonder why they are so cruel there? The idea of sending search committees the tread where a person asked for help seems simply atrocious...
Is it because of the competition? Only the strongest survives, etc.??
Applying to grad school is also a competion but people here are nice and friendly, most part of them, at least....