Me too, I'd love to go to a visiting weekend to get a feel of the place, the professors and the students. But alas, I am an international student, and if I attended one, I'd be spending *at least* a thousand dollars to get there (after the school reimburses the 300 dollars for airfare).
And yes, this school is also my safety school. On the one hand, it might change my opinions about this school when I attend its visiting weekend so it might be all good. On the other hand, something tells me it is not wise to waste all that money, especially since I'll be living in poverty (aka gradschool) for at least 5 years.