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Do Ph.D. programs get better/easier once you finish classes?
callista replied to BETough's topic in Officially Grads
I'm also finishing my 3rd semester and it has been really tough. I think part of it is, last year I was still so unaware of all the stuff I had to learn and now that I'm closer to mastering some things... I'm tired. We are going to be OK! -
So the people who are in my group project finally got back to me today (I don't count an email sent late last night as yesterday.) Project is due Monday. Good thing I did everything and have been keeping the instructor apprised.
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Oh man, I know that feeling. I was diagnosed almost 13 years ago. The grief is real... but it does get better. I promise.
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I think "not a good professional fit" is fine. It happens, and I really doubt that they are going to want to know any more than that, to be honest. How long were you there? Could you leave it out? The reason why I ask is because I went through the same thing, but was only at the job for a few months. I don't include it in my employment history.
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I hate group projects! The other two people in my group didn't show up for class last night, and we were supposed to work on some specific tasks during the class session. I share an office with them, so it will be *interesting* today.
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After a year together, the gap doesn't seem as bad because we all have to do the same work, you know? We all go through the same methodology sequence, so bonding over problem sets happens. But I can't say that I'm really "friends" in the hanging-out sense with anyone in my cohort, the way the younger students are. I'm in my middle-aged world, where I commute 1/2 hr to campus, and they live closer by. I do feel a little left out, but that's OK. I think that if I were also TAing, we'd have more points of connection, but I'm self-funded. (Working part time at my civil service job pays 2x what a GA would.) Going to happy hour as a group can help, too!
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Another "no one to ask for an LOR" Topic
callista replied to jalison's topic in Letters of Recommendation
Re: option 1 - I did that, only I'd taken a course with that professor for a full academic year. She did write a letter for me. This was back in 1996 when the applications were still mostly on paper. I airmailed all the materials to her. Try getting in touch with 1. But definitely work on 4. -
Awful start - can it be salvaged?
callista replied to volitans's topic in Coursework, Advising, and Exams
I just wanted to address the social anxiety issue. It's something that runs in my family somewhat, and I honestly believe that I was born with it as the result of a chemical imbalance. So you have tons of sympathy from me! I could relate a lot to what you said about being amazed that you made it as far as you have in the university system. This may not be the answer for you, but for me, getting on medication for my anxiety ~12 years ago has changed my life. By lowering the baseline distress, I was able to work on the cognitive stuff that needed to be done. Just a thought. In any case, counseling does seem like a good idea - cognitive behavioral therapy is meant to give you the tools to cope right away, so look for someone who does that kind of counseling. Your future life is waiting for you! Feel free to PM me if you like. Good luck! -
Current Comm/Media Studies Doctoral Students
callista replied to autumn's topic in Communication and Public Relation Forum
I'm at UConn if anyone wants to talk about that program. -
Does anyone else notice a weird tension or barrier when you have an instructor who is around your age? I find that I get along best with the faculty who are at least 5 years younger or older.
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Ladies, what type of bag or purse do you use for school?
callista replied to Student88's topic in Officially Grads
I ended up using this last semester, and it worked out pretty well: http://www.ebay.com/itm/COACH-WEEKENDER-PACKABLE-OVERNIGHT-BAG-TOTE-OCELOT-BLACK-COSMETIC-BAG-F77405-/111354570667 Got it on the Coach Factory website. It's quite durable, though unstructured. -
I survived! 6 classes, done!
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Only about a month left to go! I've spent a lot of today either napping or reading articles. Got a paper draft to write and I feel like my brain is full. There was a bomb threat on campus Thursday and that was exciting.
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I have a stats/methods midterm in a few minutes. Not feeling that confident about it right now.
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I was a late speaker and had selective mutism at 4, myself.
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Oh man, welcome to your new learning experience!!
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Ah, OK! I think Ristretto is my fave so far.
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Heh, I'm not sure, since I have a link to my LinkedIn and grad school pages from my personal site, rather than add that content all over again.
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Lynx, I got a Pixie for Christmas - and I love it, but am a little overwhelmed by all the choices. What do you like to use in your Nespresso?
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I registered my name as a .com and I have a simple one pager. Cost is about $45/yr.
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What age will you be when you finish your PhD?
callista replied to med latte's topic in Applications
I got in at 40! I visited the program and spoke with faculty before applying, and they told me that I would be a good fit, so I went for it. -
All my grades are in. I'm happy now.
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Yes, I think it's a relatively sane way to approach things. I bet you did better than you think...