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I would also think about what you want in a program. For me, I wanted something that had a strong social justice orientation and the school I chose had just that. I went to a state school and received a solid education. I did get accepted to Columbia's MSW program but they charge $50,000 in tuition and they only offered loans, which just wasn't practical looking at what a social worker makes. I think the advice you've already received is great, but think about what you want in the curriculum as well.

What schools have you looked at?

I'm applying for my PhD in either Social Work or Social Policy (at LSE) for 2021. By the time Fall 2021 rolls around I'll have two years of post MSW experience.

As a Social Worker, I'm going to vote you get your MSW. It's a more versatile degree and on the chance you get into counseling and realize you don't like it, social work will allow you to switch into something else besides counseling. Whereas a counseling degree will only let you do just that: counseling. I got my MSW from UGA and thought I wanted to do therapy. I did the job for two years and I hated every moment of it. But with my degree I was able to switch and do something else that I like. If I had gone with a counseling degree I wouldn't have been able to make that change. Just something to think about!! If you're sure counseling is for you then by all means, look at counseling. But also compare what counselors make to social workers, that might have an effect on your decision.

I COMPLETELY get you on hating most comedies. I can't stand Will Ferrel or Adam Sandler or crude/crass humor. But I see this same issue between my parents almost every day. One of them gets annoyed because the other is subjecting them to something they don't like. The answer? I don't really think there is a straightforward one. If I were you, I'd probably try to excuse myself from most showings, but attend one movie every now and then. Because you don't want him to feel like he can't share something he enjoys with you, but you also don't want to sit through those awful movies. Compromise is key!!

I'm sorry I don't have any advice on this. But I read your entire post and wanted to send you some love and good thoughts. Personally, I was going to go into a Masters program I wasn't thrilled about. I moved back to the area (it was the same school I did my undergrad at), attended orientation, got my things settled...and realized if I stayed I was going to end up either hurting myself or committing suicide. So I packed my things back in my car and left. Called my PI the next day to tell him what was up and that I needed to drop out of the program. He was okay with it; the head of the program wasn't too happy, but in the end I did what was best for me. Took a year to decide what I really wanted, applied to schools and programs I was excited about, and I'm doing so much better now. My long winded point is that if you think leaving is the best for you emotionally, mentally, and for your career: I'd say do it. If your PI doesn't like it; honestly...it's not their life. So yeah, not having their approval or blessing will suck, but you need to do what's best for you. Obviously take some time to think about things, don't rush into this. But if you're already depressed and you still have 3-4 years to go; honey, I'd get out.

FAFSA; apply for scholarships, grants, assistantships. See if you can get an out-of-state tuition waiver (if applicable).

Just a word of advice: I was accepted into Columbia's Psychology master's program, and it was going to cost over 50k to attend just for one year. They do not fund their master's students, so unless you are awarded a scholarship, all that money is on you. I'm not saying don't go, especially if it's the best fit for you. Just don't spend 100k+ without it being amazingly worth it!

I never applied to UF, but I did apply to Alabama's PhD program. I never got an interview offer, and it wasn't until April that I received an official rejection. But by that point the silence is pretty clear. Here's hoping you end up with better news than I did!

I would talk about your experiences with children and how that will serve you going into your program and internship. What have you learned from teaching, leading a classroom; what life skills and experience will you bring to the program?

Is anyone living on campus? If so, have you received an email for housing registration?

Try looking around on Reddit or google for Athens apartment reviews. Realtor. com and zillow were also good. I was able to find some usual information that helped me make my decision.

I have to agree with you, I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. I considered satire (seeing as they quoted the BBC series) or as a cry for attention or help.

I think it's important to be realistic in this situation. While my ex was never a white supremacist, he was against feminism, belittled my field, spoke negatively of the social justice movements, etc. So I understand where the "how did this happen" or "did I miss the signs" thoughts come from! But please don't do that to yourself; none of this is your fault. It is admirable that you want to educate him or change his mind, but I have to say I'm not sure that will work. Many people enter into relationships with people they know are flawed thinking "I can change x." But they can't change whatever that behavior is; and I don't think you will be able to change your husband's mind. People are stubborn creatures, and until your husband realizes he's in the wrong and decides he wants to change, it won't happen. Losing you might be the catalyst he needs to start that change. But you're living with someone who puts your field down (and by extension, you as well) and disagrees with you on fundamental issues. Don't put yourself through that!! I understand feeling conflicted; it took me a while before I convinced myself to leave my ex. This is your life, not his. If you're not happy in the relationship, or you know you can't be satisfied with this man, then leave. Do what you need to do to be happy in life. If your husband is no longer part of what makes you happy, so be it. I hope you stay strong, peaceful, calm, gracious, and loving. Don't let the hate win. Hang in there!!! <3

I went to WCU as an undergrad, so if you have questions about the area or the school feel free to PM me!