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Adelaide9216

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  1. Did anyone here get an email or a letter?
  2. Maximum review score: 93 Minimum review score: 90 Absolute score difference: 3 Average review score: 92
  3. they changed the portal so I don't know how it will come out this year
  4. Wow. That's a lot. I have no idea. How many people will be selected for the next round?
  5. Does anyone know how many applications they received this year approx?
  6. Does anyone know what is the content of the LOR generic form ?
  7. Does anyone know when the contest opens this year ?
  8. You don't understand. I never said I wanted an happy person. I said I wanted someone that will make me happy. That means, that person might have struggles and imperfections but can still make me happy simply because I accept them as they are.
  9. I never said I wanted an happy person. I said I wanted someone who will make me happy. There's a difference here. If you have low standards, that's your problem to be honest.
  10. I just want to mention that I feel much much much better this Month. Other very positive things have happened in my life. 2020 has been a very intense year for both (positive and negative) but the positive is taking over).
  11. Yes, I have Black university professors in my community that I am asking for advice. I have coffee with one of them next week. On top of the emotional burden, I am overwhelmed by all kind of requests from well-meaning White people who want to become better allies. They all ask me to be part of their committee, for advice, to write articles, etc. All Black people I know who are in academia or are activists are dealing with this. It's very intense. I got an extra semester to complete my comprehensive exam. I think I will be okay.
  12. I am not dating anyone right now. I started this thread multiple years ago. I tend to disagree with you to a certain extent. Being confident, assertive, independant (and I am) AND wanting companionship are not two mutually exclusive things. Both can coexist within a person. If I was desperate, I would have dated anyone at just any cost. I do not and I never did. Which is why I have been single for so long. I have enough self-confidence to walk away if someone is being disrespectful towards me. And I had to do that on multiple occasions, unfortunately. I know you said this are just general observations, but they don't apply to me. I prefer largely being on my own than being with someone at any cost. I am frustrated because I can't find someone that I will be HAPPY with. Not "appear to be happy" for societal norms. A relationship is not even something I want to expose to others. I want someone that I will truly be happy with and that I will make happy. It's rare to find. A lot of people in relationships are actually not that happy. I want someone that will bring me joy, without being perfect. That's all I am saying. I don't think it has to do with something that I do. I just think I haven't been lucky.
  13. 1. My make-up good really good today (I did it myself!) 2- I cooked a great meat and cheese macaroni. 3. The weather outside was lovely. 4. I felt less anxious today.
  14. I am not waiting for men to ask me out. I do first steps too and am very comfortable doing so. There is always something that gets in the way, unfortunately. I am still single and will probably remain so. To be honest, I have given up. I don't want to do this anymore
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