Zouzax

one love

faculty lounge

sexy back

I think Nyhn was correct in saying it's all about finding a balance ... like, this time I'm moving where you want to go, but after that I get to choose, etc. It's so important to recognize each other's goals so that there's no resentment in the future (something I had to learn the hard way). For example, I've had many talks with my SO about our moving to another country so I can pursue my studies. He keeps insisting that he's open to go wherever, but I want to make sure that once I choose a city, he'll then develop his own goals there (whether its go to school, find a job, study for an entrance exam, etc). I think it's really important for him to have a reason to be there. I said, "I don't want you to resent me in 2 years because I brought you to a city you hate" and he admitted I was right. Right now I'm thinking, if he can't find anything a LDR might be in the cards ....

cowboy suit

sorry to hear about everything do you ever get angry about making that decision to stay at Cal State? Like a "what if" kind of thing? years ago, I was accepted to a really good postbacc pre-med program. I did really well the first semester, but then I met a boy that I was convinced I would marry. The next year and a half of our relationship ended up being very tumultuous. It took up a lot of my time & energy. I ended up leaving the program, and at the time I thought it just wasn't for me but now I'm not so sure. I now wonder if I wouldve done well if I hadn't been so wrapped up in keeping my relationship together. I do have some regrets about that. And to top it off, many years before THAT I had been offered a chance to study in Paris and I turned it down to stay with yet ANOTHER boyfriend. So this is why I'm determined to go ahead with my plans. I think i've finally learned from my mistakes and I can say "enough is enough". Of course, you're married so it's a whole different ballgame. I hope everything works out in the end for you!!

running scared

love letter (I get none of these)

imaginary friend

haul away

i can't help you with school recommendations, but congratulations on all of your acceptances!!

Darth Nihilus

dark room

i know exactly how you feel. the last program that Im waiting to hear news from sent out acceptances a while ago. A few days ago I saw that an American student received his/her rejection in the mail. So I KNOW I'm going to get my rejection by mail, which is going to take forever if I ever get it at all (I get about 50% of actual mail sent to me). I just want to call them & tell them to save the postage.

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player hater

water sports

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old timer

you put it into words beautifully! couldnt have said it better myself.

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