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Thanks guys! Yes, Im going for my second Master's. Nhyn: We've actually done the long-distance thing before ... for two years I was in the States (finishing school) and he was in Turkey. It was really difficult, but doable (as you said). Now I'm in Turkey and we'd like to stay together, if possible. Truth is, most of the cities in Europe are a pretty short plane ride away from each other, so if worse comes to worst we can pull through, like you guys are. Elunia: I agree! I see it as a grand adventure, but sometimes I feel like its MY grand adventure, not OURS (because its true haha - I'm the only one that has wanted to live in this city for years and years). But he seems positive about it. The great news is that he just found out he might have to get a Master's degree for a job that he's really interested in (ok .. great news for me, not so great for him, as he's not fond of school)... so now (as of today) we've been looking into Master's programs in his field. That would make things much easier (as we won't have to stress about him getting approved for a visa/ finding a full-time job). So let's see what happens. I love this forum, thanks to this posting I had the idea to discuss these issues with him & we came to a (so far) happy conclusion. I hope the same happens with all of you!!!!

This is very specific, but I am searching for bilingual Political Science Master's programs in Paris. I am wondering if anyone can recommend a decent program, preferably in one of the public universities (I looked into SciencesPo but it's really expensive). I know I'm asking for a lot, but does anyone have any suggestions?

I'm so glad I found this forum, as I'm dealing with the guilt of dragging my boyfriend along for the ride as well. He keeps insisting that he'll go wherever I'm accepted, but I still feel bad that his whole life is on hold until I make a decision. To make matters worse, I was conditionally accepted to only one program - and of course, it just happens to be located in the one city he's not crazy about. But it's the complete opposite for me- I've been dying to live in this city for years, so I'm very excited- which leads to more guilt, naturally. There are more negatives too- we'll both be internationals there, so he'll have a hard time finding a job. And the city is really expensive (too bad he can't have a baby haha). Also, he doesn't know the language (but he knows English very well). Sometimes I think it would be so much easier if I went alone, but I really want to have a life with him. We've talked seriously about getting married. But even if he comes to this city with me, two years later I'll be applying for another program & will probably want to move somewhere else. It's all very difficult, and it consumes my thoughts on a daily basis. Meh.

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stocking stuffer

Thank you so much for this, it was really helpful. I found two promising grants for Uva; i can't apply for them myself, I have to be nominated by the school after I submit my application. So I guess I should just bite the bullet & pay the application fee. Who knows, maybe Ill qualify for something. Actually, I'm going to apply to a Research Master's there. I already have a Master's but I'm trying to increase my knowledge base and experience before applying to a Ph.d program again (I applied this year but was told by one prof that he thought I needed more experience. Ive taken this advice to heart). And I would love to experience a new country. Let's see what happens! Thanks again.

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i'm actually interested in the money part. I have been considering University of Amsterdam and a school in Paris for my Master's ... in terms of tuition, the school in Paris is no problem, just 400 euros a year, but since I'm not from a EU country (I'm already so sick of hearing that line) the tuition fee at Uva is over 10,000 euro .... are there no scholarships/ grants for foreign MA students? I was planning to apply for the program (deadline is April 1) but if there's no possibility of my getting funding I won't waste my time or money (100 euro app fee)...

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northern front

I'm totally learning the importance of word choice. I have a tendency to talk quickly without paying attention to the words I'm using, and its gotten me into trouble a few times. For example, last week I did a presentation on my thesis research & I said the word "Should" instead of "Could" (thus making it look like I was TELLING people what to do, not RECOMMENDING) and I swear one of my professors launched an attack on me like it was WWIII as she thought I was telling her how to do her job. Another example is that I was describing the field I'm in to a friend & I meant to say one of the things we study is literature for the LGBT community ... but I said "we study gay literature" which my friend informed me was offensive. I had no idea .. and then I remembered I had said the exact same thing in an email to one of my POIs. Maybe thats why I was rejected from that school . But seriously, word choice is very, very important. Especially during things like interviews, presentations, and emails, where what you say during that short period of time represents who you are to that person. I had an interview two days ago & I made sure to talk more slowly, to think about his questions, to pay attention to his reaction to what I said to see if further explanation was necessary (I tend to be very long-winded, which is another problem because the more I talk the more I insert my foot into my mouth) and to be aware of what I was saying at all times. I also re-read my emails once or twice before sending them to make sure they aren't making sweeping generalizations or saying things that could be taken as offensive. It takes a little work, but it's worth it in the end.

it was crazy, but I managed. my father took me to the airport. then I got one of those airport carts & checked in all the bags but my carry on & my cat. When I arrived here, I immediately got one of those big airport carts again & took it to the luggage belt. Then I got a cab and left the cart on the sidewalk, took the cab straight to the hotel, and the bellman helped me unload everything I'm so bummed that the sevenseas shipping doesnt operate in my country. Can anyone recommend any other companies? It looks like I might be moving to France at the end of this summer, trying to coordinate everything just in case ....

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electric slide

drug ring

sheep dog

lip service

two of my schools had interviews weeks ago, but I still havent heard anything either way.... im feeling pessimistic at this point

Of course Id post it!! Especially because all of my family and friends live so far away, its the only way to share my excitement with everyone. dont be afraid to post how awesome you are!! screw everyone!! (ok not really, but .. you know what I mean)

I would bet 10000000$ its the New Paltz website ... (that's where I grew up )

let's see. I started a twitter account last week because I coudn't take living with my thoughts anymore. I'm up to 56 tweets already. Oh, and I've started a twitter-fight with a midget/actor because, for some reason, his tweets were really p*ssing me off. Does that sound crazy to you?