you're all right, of course! i think the stress of waiting has finally infected my brain
@marina: no, i don't think it's a definite rejection. But the fact that they've already held interviews & invited people to an open house isn't the best sign, in my opinion. I agree with Fuzzylogician, they'd notify everyone about the open house, and if you can come from overseas, that's great. Of course, I'm just talking about my situation & yours could be completely different.
At this point I'm hoping im on an informal waitlist at some of these places. Psycholinguist, your story was a real confidence-booster.
On another, positive note, I had started looking into Plan B options - 1 year Master's programs in Linguistics in Europe (I have a Master's in Translation - and even though I've studied some Linguistics in my program, most of it has been self-study -- so I'm thinking a 1-year research program would be very helpful to my Ph.D application). Anyway, I found one awesome program and had written an email to the professor in charge, explaining my background and research goals and asking if he thought the program would be a good fit. He wrote me back yesterday, asking if we could talk on Skype. Of course, maybe he just wants to give me some more information over the phone, but deep down inside I'm thinking of the possibility that he liked my email & wants to learn more ... I'm going to prepare for the call as if it's going to be an interview, just in case