That's true. I mean I can't imagine staying army current job for forever just to be married. I also can't imagine not going back to school (probably because the picture is slowly coming together) but idk I mean I can't see ever being in a position where someone would make me pick between school or them. I don't think I would resent them if they did I mean I want the family life, I want a career too but you know people do it all the time where they start families first and then go back to school. Of course it's difficult but you just have to be dedicated. My therapist did it and her life seems awesome. I think having the family foundation would be better than the professional one, but at the same time what I am going back to school for is kind of like... Life experience is important so there are people in the program I'm sure who picked family first over school, then I'm sure there are people like me who went straight from school to school to more school. Idk I mean I like that if I stay single or unattached I can move post graduation. I am going to school ok my home state and after graduating I want to move to Kentucky so much or TN or someplace in the South. So there are positives I assume. (Would much rather be a wife and mother but.. Hey in due time I guess)