Blackbird7

Hey guys, this is upsetting that this is happening in departments. What you guys are describing IS a hostile work environment filled with aggressive behavior. This behavior creates a feeling of “otherness” and isolation plus a feeling of being under attack and scrutiny. This is unfortunate. I come from the professional world where the work culture was VERY professional, so this is definitely something I need to be aware of as I enter the academic arena once more. Thanks guys for sharing your experiences. I think A LOT of women can relate. 

Hey guys, this is upsetting that this is happening in departments. What you guys are describing IS a hostile work environment filled with aggressive behavior. This behavior creates a feeling of “otherness” and isolation plus a feeling of being under attack and scrutiny. This is unfortunate. I come from the professional world where the work culture was VERY professional, so this is definitely something I need to be aware of as I enter the academic arena once more. Thanks guys for sharing your experiences. I think A LOT of women can relate. 

Being sad is totally normal and knowing the sadness will pass regardless of your admissions status is powerful to believe. I see you and feel your pain I do! Friends will be had, new program cycles will arrive, and this admissions season will be a faint and distant memory someday sooner than you think. I speak from experience. You are brave to apply, you are brave to write what you did, and you are brave to confront your feelings. I am sending love and prayers your way! Please call the suicide prevention line 1-800-273-8255. 

Thanks for update I really appreciate it:) 

Being sad is totally normal and knowing the sadness will pass regardless of your admissions status is powerful to believe. I see you and feel your pain I do! Friends will be had, new program cycles will arrive, and this admissions season will be a faint and distant memory someday sooner than you think. I speak from experience. You are brave to apply, you are brave to write what you did, and you are brave to confront your feelings. I am sending love and prayers your way! Please call the suicide prevention line 1-800-273-8255. 

Congrats on getting into those amazing programs! Seriously very cool! 

Good luck! 

Just checking in. It feels nice to know we are all checking this page together =]

That’s awesome! Sincere and genuine are wonderful characteristics of any department. So happy for you to find such amazing people. I feel that’s what I am looking for too. People to share in my passion, with sincerity, respect and enthusiasm:) 

loving the good vibes on here! wishing everyone luck.

Hey guys, this is upsetting that this is happening in departments. What you guys are describing IS a hostile work environment filled with aggressive behavior. This behavior creates a feeling of “otherness” and isolation plus a feeling of being under attack and scrutiny. This is unfortunate. I come from the professional world where the work culture was VERY professional, so this is definitely something I need to be aware of as I enter the academic arena once more. Thanks guys for sharing your experiences. I think A LOT of women can relate. 

That’s awesome! Sincere and genuine are wonderful characteristics of any department. So happy for you to find such amazing people. I feel that’s what I am looking for too. People to share in my passion, with sincerity, respect and enthusiasm:) 

That’s awesome! Sincere and genuine are wonderful characteristics of any department. So happy for you to find such amazing people. I feel that’s what I am looking for too. People to share in my passion, with sincerity, respect and enthusiasm:) 

So nice to hear from a fellow mom! I totally agree. I truly believe we have developed many life skills that will allow us to be diligent, mature and great at collaboration. I tried to not let the admission committees forget that in my SOP:) Ha! 

They are so proud of me it’s ridiculous! It’s so sweet. They are 8 and under, so it’s all very innocent and special. My oldest is telling his teachers about his mom the professor. Not yet baby, not yet! 

They are so proud of me it’s ridiculous! It’s so sweet. They are 8 and under, so it’s all very innocent and special. My oldest is telling his teachers about his mom the professor. Not yet baby, not yet! 

I am a mom of three, re-entering the education/research arena. From many years in the professional world, and raising kids, I can tell you just getting to be considered for a position as a researcher is a true HONOR. Just to be at a place in my life to be able to apply is a true blessing. Just to have a chance at doing what I’ve always wanted to do is the biggest joy for me. Regardless if they accept me, I am just so glad to be at this point. I still got some fight left in me, I still have plenty to offer, and I am determined. That’s all I can say. Those are all good things and don’t come easy to everyone. Here’s to peace, confidence and perspective. 
Cheers:)

I am a mom of three, re-entering the education/research arena. From many years in the professional world, and raising kids, I can tell you just getting to be considered for a position as a researcher is a true HONOR. Just to be at a place in my life to be able to apply is a true blessing. Just to have a chance at doing what I’ve always wanted to do is the biggest joy for me. Regardless if they accept me, I am just so glad to be at this point. I still got some fight left in me, I still have plenty to offer, and I am determined. That’s all I can say. Those are all good things and don’t come easy to everyone. Here’s to peace, confidence and perspective. 
Cheers:)

I am a mom of three, re-entering the education/research arena. From many years in the professional world, and raising kids, I can tell you just getting to be considered for a position as a researcher is a true HONOR. Just to be at a place in my life to be able to apply is a true blessing. Just to have a chance at doing what I’ve always wanted to do is the biggest joy for me. Regardless if they accept me, I am just so glad to be at this point. I still got some fight left in me, I still have plenty to offer, and I am determined. That’s all I can say. Those are all good things and don’t come easy to everyone. Here’s to peace, confidence and perspective. 
Cheers:)

They are so proud of me it’s ridiculous! It’s so sweet. They are 8 and under, so it’s all very innocent and special. My oldest is telling his teachers about his mom the professor. Not yet baby, not yet! 

I am a mom of three, re-entering the education/research arena. From many years in the professional world, and raising kids, I can tell you just getting to be considered for a position as a researcher is a true HONOR. Just to be at a place in my life to be able to apply is a true blessing. Just to have a chance at doing what I’ve always wanted to do is the biggest joy for me. Regardless if they accept me, I am just so glad to be at this point. I still got some fight left in me, I still have plenty to offer, and I am determined. That’s all I can say. Those are all good things and don’t come easy to everyone. Here’s to peace, confidence and perspective. 
Cheers:)

I am a mom of three, re-entering the education/research arena. From many years in the professional world, and raising kids, I can tell you just getting to be considered for a position as a researcher is a true HONOR. Just to be at a place in my life to be able to apply is a true blessing. Just to have a chance at doing what I’ve always wanted to do is the biggest joy for me. Regardless if they accept me, I am just so glad to be at this point. I still got some fight left in me, I still have plenty to offer, and I am determined. That’s all I can say. Those are all good things and don’t come easy to everyone. Here’s to peace, confidence and perspective. 
Cheers:)

I told my office (five of us, most of whom are applying to grad school this cycle or the next in a variety of fields) that if I get a call ahead we're all getting a round of beer even if it's at 10am. 

This process makes me feel as if I am back in undergrad, desperately wondering if my crush will ever text me back.

Hey guys, this is upsetting that this is happening in departments. What you guys are describing IS a hostile work environment filled with aggressive behavior. This behavior creates a feeling of “otherness” and isolation plus a feeling of being under attack and scrutiny. This is unfortunate. I come from the professional world where the work culture was VERY professional, so this is definitely something I need to be aware of as I enter the academic arena once more. Thanks guys for sharing your experiences. I think A LOT of women can relate.