LittleDarlings
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I did a meetup group once the people were kind of weird like social outcasts. Maybe I just picked a bad group. I have a date tonight just cross your fingers for this one
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I admit I do need more hobbies and to focus on making friends... I just have having friends in relationships it's so annoying. I don't even know where I would start finding a hobby lol I like guns and shooting, I went to a range with my ex but I doubt I would ever go alone. I like wine I can take a wine making class alone
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... I have done everything in my power to get it. I have been dating since I was 18. At this point is does need to happen and I do deserve it. I actually have my life together, I have a job and I'm going back to school I'm not just some bum wanting to live off a guy. There is no reason for it to not happen for me. I know people way worse off than me who are in relationships (not that I would want to date who they date)
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But what if I go through school doing well and being confident and still don't meet someone? Like time is really running out. If I don't meet someone in school then what? I just don't know how to not look. I want it so much, it needs to just happen for me finally. I was a great girlfriend at one point. But ok would not looking mean that I have to delete my dating apps?
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Well thanks:) You're in a relationship though aren't you? I feel like so many people on here are in relationships and are my age it's weird. I just didn't think it would be THIS hard to find someone. I have been doing online dating for years and I have seen guys that I went out with meet girls and get into relationships and I'm still sitting here like... Oh. I thought a job would introduce me to new people but there aren't a ton of guys, the ones that work there are definitely not attractive and most are married. I know one guy I could potentially date (if he wanted to date me of course) who I went to college with (don't know if he is single since I haven't talked to him yet) it just shouldn't be so hard to meet people, who are single and attractive. I don't WANT to online date all the time but there aren't many options. I really hope grad school isn't like this because if so that's going to suck. No idea how I will meet anyone to date or marry.
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Nothing nothing and nothing. I have a job I'm making money, maybe go on a trip this summer? I feel like even that I can do during grad school. We all know my goals, that's what I care about doing before grad school
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I just came back to edit. I an very lucky and I'm happy for my new job and school. I really am, it's just hard. I hate to keep saying it and I really thought I would start working and my mind would be totally off my single status, but working made it worse lol. So I guess I just have to take it day by day. Hopefully someone soon will pop up. And thank you pears
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Just being single in this world is so hard. I realized that with my new job so many of them are in relationships/married. It is just annoying to me. I wanted a valentine gift, candy, flowers... My dad got me flowers but so not the same. I'm just over hearing about all these happy people in relationships when I'm over here hating life
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Doing a long distance relationship in school would suck... Just saying. I'm sure if you really try you could make it work though. Goodluck ... Umm so many many down votes for honest. How familiar. Since I am being fully honest. Long distance relationships hardly last which is why I said it would suck. Because it would.
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2nd day of work, already sick of it.
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Not having a cute boyfriend to post pics of in my cubicle makes me not even want a job anymore. I might as well me working at McDonalds. My life is pointless.
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Why be jealous of that? Most people who marry their high school sweethearts break up, even if it's 40 years down the road. Look at Al and Tipper Gore! And you'll have your own cute family one day, and meanwhile you're doing something meaningful for yourself (grad school). It's a cliche for a reason: no one will love you if you don't love yourself!
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Back when I had a girlfriend, I avoided carrying pictures of her specifically to avoid bothering people like you. As someone who has dated his high school sweetheart,and is now single, I can tell ya that a) things don't always last and
I sympathize with the frustration behind every eligible person being unavailable. I work with a bunch of people my age and literally one girl out of all of them is single.
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What kind of things do people put in their work cubicles!
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0 right now and hopefully 0 in grad school
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I'm sick to death of everyone always getting what they want and being happy and my life sucking ass.
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I hate everyone I went to high school/college with.
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Preparing for a Fellowship Interview
LittleDarlings replied to LittleDarlings's topic in Interviews and Visits
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I have an interview for a Fellowship program next weekend and I am freaking out, like freaking out on a new level. This is major! I could have my tuition fully covered! I just want to know how to prepare myself. I have the professional outfit together, I have researched the program and the director and his specific studies. What kinds of questions do they ask? I know this one is specifically leadership oriented. In all honesty I do not have a lot of leadership experience, I am really unsure how they selected me! I have some just not as much as previous members. How can I calm myself down and kick butt in this interview!?
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Possible full 2 year scholarship to Case!!!! What?!
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Thank you:)
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I am legitimately very panicky. My mind just wanders, I think about the absolute worst stuff. Even after I was accepted into my top choice I panicked about living (hence this thread), a social life, writing papers, tests, minimum GPA. I have already started looking up the LISW test (which I won't even be taking for another 4 years minimum) and I panicked about not being able to pass and then having wasted my time and money. Those are just my academic worries, we have already talked about the personal life concerns like, being alone forever and never having kids and being 30 and single.. It is just a constant worry, nothing is ever stress free for me. I'm surprised that I don't have a head of gray hair or an ulcer. Anyways I am in therapy at the moment I have been for a few months. I haven't been diagnosed with anything, as of now she just thinks I have a dependent personality. I will for sure be continuing therapy in school though, I know I will need it most then probably.
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When you can't find an acceptance deadline
LittleDarlings replied to EccentricAcademic's topic in Decisions, Decisions
I think you should ask. They've accepted you, I can't see them revoking it because you ask a simple question -
Haha you're like the 3rd person this week to tell me I am obsessive (well you said neurotic but pretty much the same thing). I can't help it I worry a lot, I like things planned out. Not being able to plan the most important thing to me really sucks. I don't know that I understand the sorority mixer comment? You mean everyone isn't friendly, or there aren't always guys around? Either way I totally understand what you're saying I just like things to go as planned and as of lately nothing is really going as planned.
