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Maybe I'll put a personalized stamp on my wish list for this year! Ohhh... I like the idea of designing your own. Do you know if your friend's bookplates were stickers or if she had to glue them in?

Well... since it's absolute crickets around here today, I thought I'd start a thread non-app related. I love to personalize my books, especially ones that I know will be central to my research (eg. after using the library copy for a few months, my own copy of Feeling of Kinship just arrived!) but I hate what my writing looks like on the inside cover/first page. I want to maybe invest in some "ex libris" stickers and/or personalized stamp but not sure if I want to end up stamping all my books. Anyone want to share his or her creative/unique methods for leaving your mark on books? PS. How rad is this?!

One thing I'll add to the good advice above: cook for recommended amount of time in recipe, then simmer for an hour or so. This has the effect of both reducing the curry liquidity (concentrating flavors) and also giving extra time for the bird's eye chilies that TakeruK mentioned to do their thing. Should really give your curry the extra punch you're looking for.

I've been with a non-graduate student for a number of years now. I find it comforting to sometimes come home and be out of academia. I also like getting advice from a non-academia mindset whenever I'm feeling a little myopic in my own view. I also like to hear about his industry (design/tech startup/advertising) to widen my own perspective about "the real world." I feel like generally it's a good balance. In general, if I start telling him stuff about cultural theory or something, usually we'll debate and argue so I don't tend to do it too often unless I'm feeling feisty.

I don't see any harm in reaching out, especially to the panel moderator to which you submitted, to confirm. I've had experiences with some moderators falling behind or having to delay notifications for various reasons, so it's always better to check in.

Urgh. The UCI rejection/wait list notices are right around the corner, if history is any indication (though I've heard elsewise from folks who have already been accepted--it's more of a rolling wait list?). Either way, it's my last notification before I close the books on Fall 2015 app season. COME ON ALREADY.... starting to lose it....

Congrats doc1 and CarolineKS! <throws confetti>

Congrats! I lived in Toronto for many years and did my undergrad at UT... let me know if you have any questions (that is, if you're not from or currently live in TO).

Sorry to those who are getting their real rejections today (even though it's mostly a relief, as I maintain, there's still a pinprick of pain somewhere in my soul seeing the official NO) Big hugs, y'all.

All the kudos to you folks who are turning down offers this early. While I am amongst those who are suffering in wait list purgatorio, I've tried to be very careful not to pester or beg others to turn down their offers. They deserve all the time they need to make a very, very important and tough decision!

I believe I am! It's kind of a hike to get out there for me, though, as I don't have a car.

Thanks! and YIKES that's a lot per semester... although my vespa would count as a motorcycle so I guess $63/semester ain't bad.

This sounds very untrue, especially because federal law (FERPA) protects a student's rights to inspect his or her own educational records (a category under which faculty LOR for a student falls). The legal right to inspect one's own records should also imply protection from official action against students who choose to exercise that right. While it may be true that at the adcomm-level, faculty could be leery of a student's LOR if they did not waive access, there's no way in hell that this would be an official university procedure ("blocking" the letters from reaching the department, as you said) because it would open them up to serious legal ramifications. Besides, in certain states there are good faith laws that protect professors writing LORs from repercussions if the letter is specifically being written in the context of a faculty-student relationship and the content applies only to the student's work-related characteristics. Of course, if your recommender wrote any defamatory (racist, sexist, homophobic) content, they would be open to legal action but it's not up to a university to "protect" your recommenders from the repercussions of illegal discriminatory action. I'm really wondering what your professor meant when he/she said what you claim they said.

Can someone point me in the direction of the parking pass costs per semester? I searched all around and failed. I have a vespa that I could drive to campus but if parking passes cost a lot, I'd rather just move somewhere close to a Metro line and take that in.

For all of us still kind of waiting: I feel your pain. As an international student myself, I knew state schools would be hesitant to accept me and so applied to more private schools. Ironically, the only school to offer me acceptance has been a state school. (Even then, I'd have to pay an extra $15k on top of the fellowship they offered me. Yeesh. American International tuition is ludicrous.) Either way, I found shooting for private was a helpful goal. Not sure if you have received rejections across the board or you're just anticipating that, but I wish you the best of luck in the remaining cycle or the next!

menu, please

Please pull a Costanza on Yale. You'll be my hero forever.

Oh, of course I knew you weren't serious. My reply to you was completely facetious. I guess I could've been clearer too! I'm definitely interested in this and any info you can dig up on it. I've been somewhat skeptical, however, because I've heard a lot of this same rhetoric ("Y'know, when the baby boomer's retire, employers will just be roping in strangers off the street") used to justify a lot of poor industry practice-I'm thinking specifically about training way more secondary teachers than is required, something that really bit me in the ass in my mid 20s. I'd love it if your contention eventually came true, though. As for now, the only real impact I've seen has been an overburdened health care system.

Uhh. I was agreeing with both of you and also responding to post #14, implying that it seems pretty clear that #14's question does not relate to OP's situation. Not sure what the insane snark is for, but sure, I'll take it.

Oh yes, by all means, let's get back to that then... :/ As for Gustav's point, what I took from it is, yes, of course the reputation of the super heavyweights (top 5 or 10) obviously outweigh pretty much anything when it comes to decisions between two acceptances but I think it was more illuminating, especially because of Appplication's rant about the phantom posters who apparently were "Top 10 or Bust," in pointing out "lower-ranked" schools that have strong faculty in up and coming areas of study. That information would have been extremely helpful to me as an applicant... I wasn't really in-the-know enough to know, for example, that UCSC was strong in posthumanism and information like that could've certainly shaped my application decisions a little more thoughtfully. (Of course, if I'm misinterpreting your point, Gustav, please feel free to say so.) No doubt a bout of name recognition between, say, Yale vs. "Very Good Posthumanist School" is a no-contest, but I think sliding the emphasis back in the direction of advisor reputation (in terms of their "pedigree" but also their subfield rock star status) can be informative as well.

I'm not seeing the big fuss about talking about reputation on the board... it's obviously something that concerns a lot of applicants. We shouldn't just pretend like it doesn't exist or shut it off in the realm of taboo. Not to mention, for the most part, the conversation has been rather civil. Anyway, I think Gustav is on the money here. The importance of a university being "The Place" for your sub-area of focus cannot be overstated, with the UCSC/posthumanism example being a good one. Seems like a good reminder to avoid the single-mindedness, undifferentiated madness of only "making it in the top 10."

This (aside from Dubliners) was my first real encounter with Modernism and it hit me like a brick in the face. (PS. I can't believe you hate Joyce!) Also, has anyone picked up the new Ishiguro yet? His first in a decade... very exciting!

This Marx course is kicking my ass (in a good way). Just worked our way through Grundrisse and now onto Capital...

Seriously. Let's not confuse the issue here: this is a graduate TA seeking one-on-one social time with a student, not two freshman going out to grab a bite to eat. It's plausible that a TA might take a general social interest in one of their students and that the student might interpret it as such--yet, I don't think a majority of undergraduates are so naive that that would be the first thought that comes to mind when the older man in the position of power exchanges numbers with you and then starts texting you about "starting something up" after the semester is over...

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