Chukwu Chucks Posted June 4, 2012 Share Posted June 4, 2012 Roommate's response: "It's okay, you can always live at home with your mom. Soooo much better than what you're doing now..." *facepalm* yeah, double facepalm here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aubrey600 Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 I got "Oh, they'll accept you, they want your money." Gee thanks. avicus and sociologo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Comm_Student Posted July 5, 2012 Share Posted July 5, 2012 Accepted with full funding to a top program led to one question that was asked many many times: "How'd you get that deal?!?!?! Are you really that amazing?!?!?!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Comm_Student Posted July 5, 2012 Share Posted July 5, 2012 I got "Oh, they'll accept you, they want your money." Gee thanks. Family always told me that one. Quote from my father: "If I was willing to fork over the money, I could get in anywhere." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoggyAnhinga Posted July 20, 2012 Share Posted July 20, 2012 (edited) Me: "I got into School A's PhD program!" Someone I know (not really a friend): "School A?? I thought you wanted to go to school B? Where is school A anyway?" Is it REALLY THAT HARD to say a simple "congrats" first, before bombarding me with those questions???? Edited July 20, 2012 by FoggyAnhinga Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen of Kale Posted August 18, 2012 Share Posted August 18, 2012 After 6 months of combing through 120 programs in my field, narrowing by research fit, seeking advice from trusted people in my field, contacting professors, and being a complete and utter bore to anyone who made the mistake of asking about "the list" - it's done. Which is why I am shocked and amazed that now, after hearing me prattle on for months, those near and dear to me have begun sprinkling conversations with: "well have you considered school GYFHJKJH (which doesn't do anything like what I do)" to which I'm forced to reply "yeah, but, you know, great school - just not what I want to do" to which the inevitable reply is, "well they have a great program in isduhisduhf (thing unrelated to me)" I appreciate the support of course. But why must it be now, when I have bored myself with my own nitpicking, when the list is formalized, when I can put those dark days of list-uncertainty behind me? Now is the time for meaningless application talk, essay revisions, selecting letter writers! I can only assume my friends and family have had a peak into this even duller world of approaching conversation and suddenly dream-school-talk seemed fun and fancy free by comparison. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Basic_Space Posted August 27, 2012 Share Posted August 27, 2012 My 85 year old coworker (whom I adore) told me I better get my act together and start studying for the GRE or I'll get stuck in this hell hole just like she did. That was really the kick in the ass I needed. Taking it in September. psychsquirrel, Dynamom, gscorres and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musichistorygeek Posted August 29, 2012 Share Posted August 29, 2012 I'm applying to at least 5 schools for Fall 2013--4+ in the US and one in Canada. When people outside of my field hear that McGill is one of my top choices, I tend to get: 1. I bet the election will affect your decision, then. Haha. (I understand the "liberals talking about moving to Canada after an election year" joke. I just wish everyone who brought it up didn't think they were being sooo funny and original.) 2. What's wrong with schools in the US? (Nothing is wrong with schools in the US. I did my BA and am doing my MA at US schools. I'm also applying mostly to PhD programs in the US....and one in Canada.) 3. Ugh. Americans romanticize Canada so much. You know, we have problems with the economy/international relations/racism/homophobia and transphobia/etc., too! (I know. I'm not looking at McGill because I believe Canada is a magical sparkly land of equality and liberalness that has solved all of the problems with which the US struggles. I just...like the musicologists I've corresponded with at McGill, think they have interesting programs that could support the research I want to do, and could see myself living in Montreal.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sje Posted September 11, 2012 Share Posted September 11, 2012 The one that infuriates me the most: "5 - 6 years? ...But you're going to work while you're in school right?" I swear, it's like all my family cares about is 'working.' And yet, when I explain that I could probably get funding, they still don't get it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lud Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 "Studying again? Should not you go for a job instead?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
runaway Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 I never expected this, but I've been getting this a lot since living in the UK: Them (disdainfully): Why go back to the US for a decade-long PhD when it only takes you four years to do one here? Me: Because if I do it, I'll be paid to do it. Them: ... oh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat1 Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 "A PhD will take you how long?!?? You know you could be a 'real' doctor in the same amount of time!" Yes!!! Thank you!!! Getting my PhD in art history was actually just about how much time it will take, but since you've explained to me that I could be an MD in the same amount of time, that does seem like a much better plan. crazygirl2012 and Dynamom 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dat_nerd Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 Them: "So you're graduating this year? What are you going to do after you graduate?" Me: "Well, if all goes according to plan, graduate school." Them: "Oh, what do you want to study?" Me: "I want to get my PhD in computer science with a focus on artificial intelligence and robotics." Them: 0_0 Them: "...So like Terminator and stuff?" Me: Sigh... SANDIEGO 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crucial BBQ Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 People keep telling me, "You'll get in somewhere." For some reason that just makes me more frustrated and doesn't comfort me at all. So since I have no time to make a video about this. Plus there like a million videos about what "people say" on YouTube. Care to share what people have been saying to you? Just for humor folks I hear You'll get in somewhere from time to time. My mom, who lives on the other side of the country from me, has no idea how the application process works. She periodically tells me to go to the local UC, which is an excellent school/program, as if all I have to do is just show up and start attending classes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
budgiepie Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 ^ Hate that get in somewhere line. Phh, like I had that luck last time. Then a certain relative loved to say over the Holiday, 'You didn't even get into school X? Maybe you're not meant to go to grad school.' Mean stuff man. R Deckard and Azarashi1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychdork Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 A few weeks after I told my Mom I wanted to go to grad school, I was watching reruns of an old tv show. Mom: "Are you getting your PhD because <character on tv show> got her PhD?" Me: (in my head) Yes, Mom, I've decided to spend 5+ years of my life in grad school because she did. Obviously I couldn't have made this decision for any other reason... comp12 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lud Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 Were you watching the big bang theory? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dendy Posted November 25, 2012 Share Posted November 25, 2012 (edited) My PI is obviously a really smart dude and is very well regarded in our field but he's, uh, a bit out of touch when it comes to the admissions process. PI: Well you have great grades and GRE scores, great research and some publications, awesome letters of rec--especially the one from me, mwhaha--but I really think you should work here for a few more years and get some first author papers if you want a decent chance of getting into grad school. Me: uhhh Eavesdropping labmates: *raucous laughter* Edited November 25, 2012 by dendy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crucial BBQ Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 I have also found it annoying, but interesting, that some responses are based solely on images and stereotypes of the [usually undergraduate] college/university. Wait, why are you applying to Brown? That is Ivy League, you grew up working-class. They look down on people like you. Why don't you go to a state university, you know, something more blue-color. Or, That school has major athletics programs, and you know, is a jock school. You don't want a future employer to see that you went there, you want them to see that you went somewhere that was academically challenging [for non-jocks]. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crucial BBQ Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Them: "So you're graduating this year? What are you going to do after you graduate?" Me: "Well, if all goes according to plan, graduate school." Them: "Oh, what do you want to study?" Me: "I want to get my PhD in computer science with a focus on artificial intelligence and robotics." Them: 0_0 Them: "...So like Terminator and stuff?" Me: Sigh... Hahahaha, such a great line You can't blame the public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bamafan Posted December 2, 2012 Share Posted December 2, 2012 People keep telling me, "You'll get in somewhere." THIS. Single most frustrating line. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faraday Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 This has probably already been posted, but over Thanksgiving the common theme was: "Oh, you're going to get your doctorate? It will be so good to have a medical doctor in the family!" *facepalm* R Deckard 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gradorbust Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Even though I have not gotten in anywhere my girlfriend is giving me trouble because she is certain I am going to get in somewhere, and the relationship is over if I have to move. Its gonna be a fun 3 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat1 Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Even though I have not gotten in anywhere my girlfriend is giving me trouble because she is certain I am going to get in somewhere, and the relationship is over if I have to move. Its gonna be a fun 3 months Because you need that stress on top of the anxiety over hearing back from schools. I'm sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ay761 Posted December 5, 2012 Share Posted December 5, 2012 yeah that's too bad... unless you told her the relationship would be over if you have to move.. anyway, the thing that bothers me the most is hearing, 'it's ok, if you don't get accepted it just means you weren't meant to get a phd and you can move on and find something else to do with your life'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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