Gingersnaps Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 One more person quit work today effective Friday. Need to move on asap. Can't take it anymore. Applying for positions and waiting for answers almost as bad as waiting for grad school's answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
east-coast-girl Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I asked my past professors to write me a letter of recommendation due by Oct 1st (by mail) and I asked them about the letters in August. They all happily obliged. The first two writers got right on top of submitting the letters and the third told me she would email me when she mailed the letter. I emailed her last week just to check in and make sure she was still onboard and she said she would do it this past weekend. I have no idea if she sent in the letter and I really don't want to badger her about it, but the not knowing is driving me nuts! AUGHHH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scantronphobia Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Well this is just flat out awesome. The faculty member who was leader the meeting asked a question and proceeded to stare at me after asking it. Which then made everyone else stare at me. Not sure why I was delegated to answer the question but I was. That sounds awesome--I love being designated the answerer when I didn't raise the issue--and have no particular authority to answer it. In that vein, I'm so glad for this venting thread today because I have had an anxiety-filled day. Trying to participate a little more in seminar discussions is a goal of mine for the semester. So today I actually did have some points that I wanted to raise. Apparently I didn't communicate them very well; in fact, I apparently communicated exactly the OPPOSITE of what I meant. Think: completely backwards, non-progressive ideas. So that's what the prof and other students heard and they started posing questions at me. I earnestly tried to answer them, unaware of how they had heard me, until it dawned on me what they'd heard. So I guess I need to backpedal? Or straighten it out? Or let it alone and let them forget about it/continue to think I'm a backwards, ignorant jerk? Maybe this is a teachable moment--my favorite backhanded compliment... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoJingly Posted October 3, 2014 Author Share Posted October 3, 2014 I have no idea if she sent in the letter and I really don't want to badger her about it, but the not knowing is driving me nuts! No, badger her! It's for your future after all :-) "Hey there, just checking in to see if you had any problems submitting the letter this past weekend, and let me know if I can help in any way." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wuglife427 Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 I emailed a prof to ask for a recommendation two weeks ago, and have I have not heard anything back. She's on sabbatical, so no office hours. If she agrees to write it, I doubt that she'll submit it on time. If she refuses, I don't know who my last letter-writer will be. I'm starting to get really worried that she just doesn't like me, and if I badger her at all I'll end up with a weak or even negative letter. Blergh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
educdoc Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 (edited) I emailed a prof to ask for a recommendation two weeks ago, and have I have not heard anything back. She's on sabbatical, so no office hours. If she agrees to write it, I doubt that she'll submit it on time. If she refuses, I don't know who my last letter-writer will be. I'm starting to get really worried that she just doesn't like me, and if I badger her at all I'll end up with a weak or even negative letter. Blergh. I've had this happening to me last year. She was not answering my emails, then she was busy grading the finals (yes, it took her all that time to the finals week!). I ended up not being accepted at the universities she sent her recommendation at and getting offers from other universities where I've had the best idea of asking another professor for recommendation only because she was so darn late. Was this a pure coincidence or she plainly sent weak (not wanting to think about any negative) letters to those universities? The other 2 recommenders were the same for all the applications. Edited October 4, 2014 by educdoc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifesaver Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Screw your lying ass and your new girlfriend, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maelia8 Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 went to a party, got smashed drunk, and spent the last hour puking in the toilet … I'm too old for this! Now all of the other grad students in my cohort know what a responsible adult I am … I'm so embarrassed. gk210 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ss2player Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 went to a party, got smashed drunk, and spent the last hour puking in the toilet … I'm too old for this! Now all of the other grad students in my cohort know what a responsible adult I am … I'm so embarrassed. I know that feel; I have older friends who told me you'll be less able to hold your liquor as you get closer to 30, and foolishly I didn't believe them. Last time I tried to drink like I was still in college I felt awful and spent the next day in bed cursing the ceiling. So from now on I cap it at 2 strong beers MAX and just enjoy the company and hopefully some delicious craft brews. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maelia8 Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 @ss2player that's definitely what I'm going to do next time! Honestly, I don't know what came over me. I know my own limits and I was clearly pushing them - I was just so happy it was Friday that I stopped caring. After spending Saturday pretty much comatose, I won't be doing THAT again for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
east-coast-girl Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 I've had this happening to me last year. She was not answering my emails, then she was busy grading the finals (yes, it took her all that time to the finals week!). I ended up not being accepted at the universities she sent her recommendation at and getting offers from other universities where I've had the best idea of asking another professor for recommendation only because she was so darn late. Was this a pure coincidence or she plainly sent weak (not wanting to think about any negative) letters to those universities? The other 2 recommenders were the same for all the applications. No, badger her! It's for your future after all :-) "Hey there, just checking in to see if you had any problems submitting the letter this past weekend, and let me know if I can help in any way." Thankfully she finally emailed me and let me know that she sent in the recommendation!! And I got the update that all of my materials are in the system! Let the waiting commence! Eek! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
educdoc Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Thankfully she finally emailed me and let me know that she sent in the recommendation!! And I got the update that all of my materials are in the system! Let the waiting commence! Eek! Good luck! At the end of the day, she seems all right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
educdoc Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Screw your lying ass and your new girlfriend, too. This was right after my post. Were you responding to me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wayfarer Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 went to a party, got smashed drunk, and spent the last hour puking in the toilet … I'm too old for this! Now all of the other grad students in my cohort know what a responsible adult I am … I'm so embarrassed. It's OK. Last Monday I went to donate blood for the first time before the class I TA -- passed out, woke up, vomited. Luckily my supervising professor is really laid back and no one saw it coming that I would have that bad of a reaction to donating. If nothing else today will be hard pressed to be worse than last Monday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smg Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I hate the f'n feds. bastards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifesaver Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 This was right after my post. Were you responding to me? No. I don't know you. Do you lie and cheat on your long term girlfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spectastic Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 No. I don't know you. Do you lie and cheat on your long term girlfriend? I feel bad for you, but man... I've seen worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lifesaver Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I feel bad for you, but man... I've seen worse. There's definitely more to the story, but I will spare you all the details. I mainly replied cause I was wondering why Edudoc thought I was talking to him. Caught me as a little defensive, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
educdoc Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 No. I don't know you. Do you lie and cheat on your long term girlfriend? Hahaha. No, of course. Sorry, when I read all posts, yours being right after mine, it looked that way. Sorry if something like this happened to you. I've never cheated. I'm married and have 2 wonderful kids. Can't say the same (the wonderful part) about DH but we're working on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hustlebunny Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 (edited) OH..MY..GOSH thank you for this thread!!...... WHYYYYYY!!!!!! uncertainty is the worst...only hoping now :/ ...Lord please! Edited October 10, 2014 by hustlebunny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wayfarer Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 "Can we set up a time to meet?" "Yeah, just email me and we'll set it up." Four days later....silence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VulpesZerda Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 When I asked my boss a few weeks ago for yesterday off: "Why" "I'm taking the GRE" *puzzled look* "It's like the SAT for grad school" "Ok. So what's grad school?" This is what happens when you work at a grocery store, I guess? I bet the conversation about taking the day off for a conference will be good, too. smg, bibliophile222, mrsmithut and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geographyrocks Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 How the bleepity bleep bleep bleep am I sick again???? Bleep! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nugget Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 (edited) I have a new pet peeve.... People who keep on asking questions about things that are really obvious that can be found on the internet in a matter of seconds. Now I can understand when people aren't well educated, don't speak much English, or have limited access to the internet, for instance. But when someone is applying to grad school and keeps on asking silly things about admission requirements for various grad programs that can be easily found on each school's website, it really makes you wonder if grad school is the best decision for that sort of person. WWhhheewww.... glad I got that off my chest. Now I feel better. Edited October 14, 2014 by jenste Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monochrome Spring Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I pay for 50mbps internet through Comcast and it has been below 1mbps consistently today and I've had issues the past couple days on top of that. I went through all of their advice to get my internet back up, but all I get when I call customer service is "We can't tell you why you have this problem because we are having trouble getting into our system". Well, I'm so glad you're incompetent; I want money back for my lost work time. educdoc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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